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[–] vonbaronhans@midwest.social 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

Another big part is that so many people have virtually zero support. It's just them and their kids. For the first few years, we lived a 4.5hr drive from any family support. I don't even know how you find and vet babysitters these days.

It doesn't help that we're atheists, so we don't even get the built in community support that a lot of churches provide.

[–] WalnutLum@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Same.

Japan doesn't have babysitters. It suuuuuucks.

[–] vonbaronhans@midwest.social 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Wait there are no babysitters in Japan? I was only there for a year as a very much childless young adult, but for some reason I assumed there would be babysitters. Thinking back, I don't think I ever knew someone who babysat unless it was an older sibling looking after younger siblings. Heck, I don't even know the Japanese word for it. Wow, for some reason I really thought that was only a modern American problem.

[–] WalnutLum@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago

Nope, there's only a few on-call childcare services and they're very expensive and booked way out in advance. You also have to do interviews with the care provider.

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