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[–] MooseyMoose@lemmy.world 14 points 8 hours ago (7 children)

There ain't no smile in those eyes. Creepy AF.

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago (5 children)

You have to be willing to exploit your fellow humans to get where he is. Either you don’t have a soul to start with or it gets torn to bits every step you take up the ladder.

I’ve known people like that. I’ve been very close to people like that. It’s crazy, everywhere they look they’re looking for some win/something they can take. They never feel guilty. Honestly, the only thing they feel is betrayal when someone won’t bend the knee.

That’s my little observation.

Sad thing is, they still have people who love them but they aren’t truly capable of reciprocating. Everything is transactional and they always expect it to be profitable for them. The only thing that truly hurts them is when it isn’t profitable. It sucks being caught in their orbit too. Believe me.

[–] MooseyMoose@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

My brother was a sociopath, unsuccessful in business but a user and abuser.

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

I have spent most of my life dealing with a successful sociopath. Thing is, at times it really looks like he means well.

It’s a constant battle in my head. Is it just his belief system? Is it just that he views everyone else as incompetent?

I constantly find myself making excuses for him because I love him. I get angry and I’m able to really look at everything sometimes, or he does something really shitty to someone else. Like recently, he wanted to buy tires for his son. Great, right? But he had to find a way to make it a tax write off or he didn’t want to do it. He got his daughter a car, but with the condition that her mother couldn’t drive it under any circumstances. And it had to be a flood damaged car. Good deals with the salvage titles and all.

He finally caved and sent his son money when I guilt tripped him, but he was mad for weeks about it. He’s probably still fuming. Mom ended up buying his daughter a car she couldn’t afford on credit and he gave the one he bought her to his girlfriend.

He ended up buying his son used tires because he couldn’t work it out to get the write off without sending a check and he didn’t trust him with it (with no reason to feel that way).

He built a cabin with his step brother in the 80s. They both poured blood, sweat, and tears into it. He had the money so he technically owned it, but it was understood that it was theirs with no strings attached.

When it was completed he informed him that he was welcome to use it any time he wanted, so long as his mother never stepped foot through the door. Naturally his step brother said “fuck that”, took the L and never went back.

I don’t know I’m doing dealing with it. Emotions are weird.

[–] MooseyMoose@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I understand, my brother only ever fucked over everyone else except me (probably because he knew what would happen) and it was an ever frustrating thing. I miss him but I think it's for the best that he isn't around to do more damage.

[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

What ended up happening to him? Was it drugs that stopped him from being successful enough to really hurt people?

Sorry to say it like that. That’s just been my experience.

[–] MooseyMoose@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

He got hopped up on coke and booze and tried to kill a random driver with one of his beloved guns and they ran him down.

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