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[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 51 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (19 children)

Are you a woman? I've never met a woman who hasn't had some experience with this. Sexism is everywhere, and if you haven't really experienced it, that's bcz you're a guy.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 26 points 1 month ago (18 children)

Don't know what the other comment was, but everyone has experienced sexism. It's inevitable that inaccurate gender stereotypes will be applied to you at some time. For men it's just the "stop emoting you fucking pussy" or "you suck at nurturing so don't even try."

The patriarchy fucks us all.

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago (8 children)

While I agree, men face sexism too, in a different way. It feels like minimizing their experiences, to have someone come in here and say, well, actually, men face sexism as well.

I am a guy, for the record. I just finally started listening to the women in my life who have been telling me for years that they face this stuff.

[–] themoken@startrek.website 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I don't think it's minimizing to acknowledge that sexism is endemic and cuts both ways.

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You don't have to think its minimizing. I'm trying to tell you nicely that it is.

[–] gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com -4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Well, you're wrong, so maybe don't be a condescending shit about it

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The fact that you are so angry about what I have to say tells me I'm not.

[–] gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The fact that you have to pretend I'm angry for pointing out you were a cunt just to pretend you're in the right is sad

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Do some self reflection my dude. Toxic masculinity is not the same thing, not even close.

[–] gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Never said it was the same thing, don't put words in other people's mouth. You said it minimizes people's experience to point out that sexism isn't exclusively experienced by one sex, which is a silly thing to say, and was the point of discussion, because of your original "if you haven't experienced sexism you're a man" comment

The reading comprehension/memory of people on this site has gone down the shitter the last couple weeks, jfc

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago

Good talk, but clearly not gonna get anywhere here. Have a nice weekend.

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