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[–] arendjr@programming.dev 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I’ll add one: to appreciate the beauty of life itself, or in other words: be happy.

That does tie in with the “it gets better” and you’ll have to trust me when I say that happiness can be found.

But for whatever it’s worth, I wasn’t always happy, and I went through very dark places in the past. Yet I found happiness in multiple places and I honestly don’t feel like I need to pretend anymore.

However that might not mean a lot if I didn’t give some pointers to help you find it. To find happiness the best thing you can is to find peace within yourself, which implies becoming at peace with who you are. First of all, don’t let the sadness in the world distract you from your own happiness, because the best way to combat the world’s sadness is by being happy yourself. Then you can become an example for others to become happy too. And second, don’t assume it means nothing. We live in a spiritual place that’s mysterious and wonderful. There’s endless happiness to be found there. If you don’t think that’s true, I believe you owe it to yourself to explore so that you may find it. Because you can. And when you do, things will get better. Trust.

[–] MrShankles@reddthat.com 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"I will have my peace. I'll carve it out of sheer stone if I have to, but nobody can take it from me." has been kind of a mantra for me recently. It's always a struggle, but I can always just breathe in... and back out. Trust

[–] arendjr@programming.dev 1 points 1 week ago

It’s an important step, yes. You are the master of your own happiness. Take care!