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I am implementing my zero-tolerance policy on my social media. If I come across an unhelpful or hurtful comment, I report it to the moderators and block the user. I prioritize maintaining a safe environment for myself. Being vulnerable does not imply that I am open to being mistreated or taken advantage of.

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[–] Chozo@fedia.io 2 points 21 minutes ago

Just FYI, reports aren't anonymous on Lemmy. I've seen some mods that have banned users over what they felt was report abuse.

I dunno how often you're running into these comments, so it may not be an issue for you, but just thought I'd make sure you were aware of that, in case you're in a community with hypersensitive mods.

[–] MNByChoice@midwest.social 3 points 4 hours ago

Good on you!

We all need to block and filter more quickly.

[–] kaerypheur@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago

There’s a difference between filtering out abusive behavior and avoiding differing opinions.

[–] MemmingenFan923@feddit.org 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Is there a limit of blocked users on Lemmy?

[–] kaerypheur@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

I think, no.

[–] 0laura@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

good for you, I should probably block people more often too. but I'd recommend against announcing something like that, trolls might see it as a challenge. you don't want to attract more assholes.

[–] kaerypheur@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I intend to attract and connect with more people who are like me, as described in this post. Not those trolls. Users with bad behavior will be held accountable.

[–] 0laura@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 6 hours ago

yea I know that, but trolls love that. they can always make new accounts.

[–] ACbHrhMJ@lemmy.world 11 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Shiggles@sh.itjust.works 1 points 7 hours ago

Do me too! Me too!

[–] CrypticCoffee@lemmy.ml 4 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

If you're on xitter, most users are toxic and toxicity is incentivised because engagement is money.

If prioritising your mental health, taking a break from ones like X and Facebook help.

Blocking negative content and hope it becomes wholesome can be exhausting and fruitless as it will reccomend it, regardless.

I personally found regularly scrubbing contacts that are not meaningful until you can take breaks more and more helps. Eventually, I refused to allow it my time or to cost my mental health so no longer use it. For me, the cost was greater than the benefit.

[–] snf@lemmy.world 0 points 4 hours ago

What kind of comments would qualify as "unhelpful"?

[–] k1ck455kc@sh.itjust.works -5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Know your biases... This is how you build an echochamber

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 9 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, because blocking someone insulting you is building an echo chamber. 🙄

[–] kaerypheur@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

Blocking someone for harassment = protecting your mental space.