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[–] absolutejank@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

outside of like academic settings, anything should go. check out the previous sentence where i inserted an unnecessary “like” as an example. it reflects my train of thought and i type as i think. same thing should go for slang and stuff, if the best way to get your point across is with ideas that have not been accepted by the academic world then that’s totally skibidi tubular, man.

[–] jjmoldy@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Most of it. I don't know how people find the energy to give a shit about grammar in informal settings. If I can understand the meaning it's good enough for me.

[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 3 points 1 week ago (8 children)

I've recently come to the position that really, there isn't truly such a thing as incorrect grammar. There's grammar that doesn't fit the norm for the people one is speaking to, and if it's different enough to impair the ability for the intended audience to understand what you're communicating it can be impractical or inadvisable, but since grammar isn't an intrinsic part of the universe outside of human creation, and since the way it's used changes whenever people "break it's rules" in numbers over time, it can't actually be wrong. After all, someone could view something written in a very closely related foreign dialect as another similar language written correctly, or one's own language written incorrectly, and there isn't really a non-arbitrary way to decide which is the case.

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[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (4 children)

The one thing I will insist on is the use of is/are. It's pretty simple, if referring to a countable set, use "are". E.g. there are four turtles in my sewer. You would not say "there are too much shit on this webpage", because that shit is uncountable.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Some things work differently between dialects of English. For example "the band is" (it is) vs "the band are" (they are).

There are vague cases. A band could be a singular entity or a group of countable members, and whichever you use would come with a shading of connotation about that. "The band are all upset about this deal... The band isn't taking its roadies for granted."

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[–] fittedsyllabi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I is agreeable.

[–] A7thStone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 week ago

MLB Baseball?

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Anything logical...

Grammar is less rules that we have to follow and more a description of what people are using.

So when shit doesn't make sense, we should all just agree that's dumb and switch.

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