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(Let's asume you have kids).

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[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 month ago

I've used this name in public as a new identity. I think once my kids know i used it as a form of self identity, they'd either partially adopt it or choose their own name as well.

[–] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 5 points 1 month ago

They're cool with it.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

they're the ones who have killed me.

[–] ElCrusher@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago

My kid would likely say I crushed it.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think they would mainly hate it because it would infringe on their own self-identity. No one I know in real life knows my user name, and no one who knows my user name knows my irl identity. That would be the biggest problem.


Checked with my 15 year old daughter: 98% hate.

[–] AngryishHumanoid@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

If they are at all aware of the world in which we live they would have fallen down the same path anyway.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

So they’re hemi-semi-hemi-demigods?

[–] Codpiece@feddit.uk 4 points 1 month ago

I’m not sure mine would understand.

[–] Chimrod@jlai.lu 4 points 1 month ago

I think they could have worse

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago
[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

That really depends on their gender and orientation. I assume straight daughters would not be happy.

[–] pezhore@infosec.pub 4 points 1 month ago

Hope mine like shitty candy!

[–] Psaldorn@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

My kids call me Boursin Cheese because they couldn't pronounce my name (or chose not to)

They get what they give.

[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Everyone can finally choose "dr." option when filling out flight ticket forms guilt free and probably fly free on Canadia Airlines at least once.

[–] Beebabe@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Quite a bit, but it could be worse.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

'Triple B' could be a decent, non horrible nickname, I agree, could ... be ... a lot worse.

[–] JetpackJackson@feddit.org 4 points 1 month ago

They're cool with it

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 4 points 1 month ago

Kids are probably going to make fun of the foot part. Teenage girls are going to ask my sons if the size matches other parts.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

During early life, they'd like it. As teenagers they'd hate it. In their adult years they'd come back around to liking it again.

[–] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

As long as I don't name them Steve then we're all good

[–] seralth@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Just make their middle name not.

The. It's Steve Not Notsteve!

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My username is a variety of my name. So less annoyed than the kids of Ladiesman217.

[–] Nomad@infosec.pub 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

They would be wondering whyiI haven't embraced the lifestyle, only adopted the name.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Honestly i would join you in the lifestyle

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[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 3 points 1 month ago

well, I'm snipped so that's not a problem, but if we decided to for some reason adopt, they probably wouldn't love it. I wonder if tabbed browsing would ever go away and it would be a surname based on something that everyone forgets (there are more obscure examples but for example Cooper, Cobbler, Fletcher, Bowyer, Tyler, Taylor, Brewster, etc.)

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Eh, it's pretty descriptive of me but I wonder if my kids would be the same. They'll be monotheistic, most likely at least, but yappy/argumentative is not a given. 🤷

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[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

As long as they find their own pocket rocks, I think we're peachy.

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 3 points 1 month ago

Not bad…. Not bad

[–] squaresinger@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

It's alright, I guess, except that nobody in the family (myself included) like singing.

[–] chiruyuki@ani.social 3 points 1 month ago

Eh, unless they don't like cute stuff I don't think they'd care lol

[–] jaykrown@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

They wouldn't hate me at all.

[–] Smeagol666@crazypeople.online 3 points 1 month ago

Probably slightly less than they already do.

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[–] AmidFuror@fedia.io 2 points 1 month ago

I'd be in the center of an uproar.

[–] Pinkie_Toe@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Meh. It's no biggie.

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