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When I was on Reddit I felt like my opinion didn’t matter. But here it just feels more open and free.

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[–] Uriel238@lemmy.fmhy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Considering I am totally inactive on Reddit now, yes.

[–] PAPPP@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 years ago

I've never been much of a poster (not even 2 posts/yr for the almost dozen years I've had a reddit habit), but I was a regular commenter in various specific-interest subs.

I am, as a rule, no longer contributing content to Reddit, since they've made it clear they plan to finish their transition from "hosting communities" to "extracting value from users." Frankly, it's not as much of an imposition as I feared, because many of those communities seem to be broadly taking the same attitude.

I'm actively trying to comment heavily here to to try to help establish communities. If I had a little more free time I'd do some posting and/or try to help spin some successor communities for my interests.

[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Oh for sure. It definitely seems like people are more level-headed over here, and are less likely to find the most nitpick-y thing to jump into an argument with you over.

(Which, to clarify, I don't mean someone correcting information I've posted - of course, if I've posted something incorrect I'd like to know - but even then, there is always a tactful way to go about doing so)

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[–] Pyrux@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Only reason I visit reddit now is to see how the dumpster fire is going

[–] shemishtamesh@vlemmy.net 2 points 2 years ago

yes, never had a reddit account.

[–] Badass_panda@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

My level of activity on Reddit has been wanting. I was / am still fairly active in some niche subs, but I used to be pretty active in AskReddit, askmen, and several other spaces.

I've made a concerted effort to be more active here, and it feels nice! Feels a lot more human

[–] Crylos@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

1000%!

I actually created a community for a hobby of mine, and have been trying to post and comment more.

[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 years ago

I’m making myself be active here. I’m learning to build my own lemmy instance on a VPS.

I want there to be a sea change in social media. I want an authentic intellectual conversation. I was in college during the usenet era and found it easy to find mind expanding stuff there with a minimum of toxicity.

My hope is the community and software mature steadily together until it is ready to handle a significant influx.

Let’s not reward toxicity. We need to steer the conversation and the software development to reward quality engagement over quantity.

[–] MusketeerX@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Yes because:

  1. I want to see it take off and want to do my bit
  2. It feels like a more chilled environment in which to participate
[–] dragnucs@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I am more actif here than on reddit. There was a time on reddit I stopped even upvotes and down votes when I noticed they are changing philosophy. Here I post more stuff and wrote more comments. Sometimes to add value to discussions and sometimes just for the sake of commenting and getting activity rolling.

Yeah, I mean, I'm not the most active, but I made a sublemmy (I'm still not sure about the naming convention here lol) and that's something I never did on Reddit, because everything was usually already there in some form. I also did it to contribute, because I know that us being active actually counts for something. On Reddit I could go months without posting or commenting. So yes, I'm definitely more active and it feels like you are actually engaging with other people and not just consuming content.

Definitely. I'm both posting and commenting way more. I need to do my part to make sure this thing really takes off!

[–] G1ZMO_DRAG0N@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Honestly, I'm trying to be more active in here. The whole defederation thing going around has me confused about where my account lives and replicating what's on it. Makes it hard to stay active if I don't know what's going to happen haha

[–] freeman@lemmy.pub 2 points 2 years ago

I hear ya. Thats why i just setup my own instance....

[–] Thurgo@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Most of my Reddit commenting was done on threads for people looking for advice in one of my hobbies. I generally had a good experience giving feedback here since most people in the subreddit were level headed. Sometimes you got the occasional asshole parroting the usual online "best way to do something" that goes against some people's actual real life experience that is being shared.

I didn't really make any meaningful (non joke) comments outside of this subreddit since I didn't feel like getting some dick in my notifications trying to start a fight over whatever I posted. Sometimes I didn't mind battling the dicks in the hobby subreddit since people lurking can actually learn or get a different perspective from "No, you shouldn't take what's in a listicle as fact. Here is my experience with this."

[–] Fubarberry@lemmy.fmhy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Depends, I was mainly active on small subreddits that were focused on things I was interested in. Here those small subs don't exist yet (or are very inactive), but the lower overall user count means I'm interacting with a lot more communities than I would on reddit.

[–] thesanewriter@vlemmy.net 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I definitely am. I may have more comments and posts here than on Reddit already and I have only been here a fraction of the time.

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[–] supermurs@suppo.fi 2 points 2 years ago

For me it was always difficult to be active on R so the atmosphere here is much more pleasant.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 2 years ago

I'm not there yet, although I did a lot on Reddit

[–] deathbypizza@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Have recently made the jump from Reddit. With a brilliant 3rd party app - go figure!! I expect to be more active here.

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[–] br0da@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

On Reddit I was afraid to comment or post because of the inevitable onslaught of users who would try to start a keyboard fight on the most trivial of topics. It hindered me from just sharing any kind of opinion or cool accomplishment to the point where I would just comment with a one-word or one-liner in hopes it's not petrol. Getting shit on turns you in to a lurker. I've engaged more on Lemmy in the past 2 weeks than I have on Reddit in years. I like it here.

[–] TheInsane42@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I'm a lot more active then I was on Reddit.

I was very active in the subs of the games I play (I'm even r/CSRRacing2 mod) when I started there, but I'm getting tired of the hate, stupidity,...

[–] Borgzilla@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago

Yes, I didn't have an account and I always browsed via a proxy (Teddit). I didn't want to be manipulated by the algorithm.

[–] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 years ago

Agreed - stopped posting and sharing on Reddit a while ago. I engage more and find this place more engaging. It’s good!

[–] Screak42@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I have not touched reddit since this debacle... I added a bunch of subreddits to my RSS reader, but I'm honestly not looking at it.

Unfortunately searching for information often brings me to a reddit post, but I'm trying to avoid it and so far found the information elsewhere.

[–] tom@lmmy.tvdl.dev 1 points 2 years ago

Yes, by far. I wouldn’t really comment on Reddit. Here I do

[–] fiah@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 years ago

barely, but I'm trying

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