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I chose Aussie.zone cause I'm out of touch with my own country so seeing the news here is nice and cause I thought it would be easier to join a country instance.

Also optional email and I know I could make a temp email but I can't be bothered.

[โ€“] Kuchenchen@feddit.de 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm learning german so while i was looking for some german speaking communities. They're surprisingly big and keep growing.

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[โ€“] funchords@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 2 years ago

I was looking for a lemmy instance that would let me create communities, downvote if I wanted to downvote, and that would take care of troublemakers without being too overly restrictive.

I also wanted to ease the burden on the very busy lemmy instances that were being overwhelmed by the reddit Exodus.

It seems I have found a place. The SDF has a very long history of serving several communities in the internet and Linux world. I first ran into them decades ago, and they are still here.

[โ€“] hotwarioinyourarea@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm a dirty hippy and slrpnk.net seemed like a server for other dirty hippies

[โ€“] Jean_le_Flambeur@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

The Admin of my instance (discuss.tchncs.de) is tolerant but understands the tolerance paradox. (Defderated with exploding heads but not every left instance - doesn't fall for false balance.

Also he was fast with approving new accounts.

[โ€“] RecursiveDescent@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I got approved today 20 mins after verifying my email. It was a pleasant surprise

[โ€“] myersguy@lemmy.simpl.website 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Surprised I'm not seeing any other self-hosters in here. Having seen the de-federation drama, it's nice to know that I can federate with anyone I want, regardless of if they are federating with eachother.

Obviously it comes with the administration side of things, but I really don't mind.

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[โ€“] tzutoo@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

It doesn't really matter actually, but I would prefer to stay on the one with more members as it will probably last longer than other instances

[โ€“] OsakaWilson@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

The first I tried was Lemmy.ml. I applied and didn't hear back. So I joined Lemmy.world and registered immediately.

[โ€“] TheSacredOne@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Tried lemmy.world as a reddit refugee but with the performance issues they're experiencing, quickly went looking for another instance with better performance and a decent amount of extra content. Lemmy.ml is blocked at work (.ml TLD is freenom so prone to abuse) and registration is closed anyway, so decided on lemm.ee.

Far better speed, a good amount of content locally, and few/no errors at the moment.

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[โ€“] ZTabs@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

I'm with the boys on lemm.ee !

[โ€“] Ranessin@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago

Biggest German server and good community.

[โ€“] ilovetvshows@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

Google search. I had no clue about multiple instances. Search lemmy on Google and first link was for lemmy.ml domain so that's how I am here.

[โ€“] zerbey@infosec.pub 3 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Bouncing between several since lemmy.world is being hammered right now, I'm sure once the dust settles things will calm down. Right now I'm on infosec.pub because it was recommended to me as a smaller server. It really doesn't matter so long as whatever you're on communicates with everyone else.

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[โ€“] creation7758@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago

It doesn't but I thought it did

[โ€“] Lotsen@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago

A subreddit I was in linked their lemmy community and it was on dbzer0 so I created a account on there and called it a day.

[โ€“] Hox@vlemmy.net 3 points 2 years ago

I chose vlemmy.net cause it seemed neutral, general, and was one of the recommended ones. So far so good.

[โ€“] Purr@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I chose Lemmy.world, because it was the one I was hearing the most about. It's a bit slow at the moment, but that's not surprising, given the amount of new users. So far it's been fun. I really hope more and more people show up!

[โ€“] saigot@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I joined lemmy.ca because I like to keep a diet of local news and a place to avoid American influence. I like using my local feed for well the local stuff and then my subscriptions for all the niche interests that the Canadian community couldn't sustain alone.

[โ€“] hsl@wayfarershaven.eu 3 points 2 years ago

When I got started on Lemmy, there were only a handful of instances and they were all general-purpose. I went and made my own so that it was exactly what I wanted.

These days, I'd probably use a list like this and choose an instance that isn't too big with a cool domain name: https://github.com/maltfield/awesome-lemmy-instances

[โ€“] LeHappStick@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

It has the word world in the name, sounds bigger.

[โ€“] Menagerie@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago

I picked pawb because furries know tech really well, so I can trust the server to be fairly reliable.

[โ€“] Seraphin@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Because I'm a furry. obligatory OwO

[โ€“] Elkaki123@vlemmy.net 3 points 2 years ago

The one I use doesn't block other instances, although I probably will block the same instances and people that big instances already block, I want to be the one to make that choice and shape the content I see.

Its status on federation with problematic instances.

[โ€“] Watcher@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The list of blocked instances made me switch from feddit.de to the current instance I'm using.

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[โ€“] Flashback956@feddit.nl 3 points 2 years ago

Country, I live in The Netherlands so I searched for a Dutch hosted instance with Dutch owner.

[โ€“] digdilem@feddit.uk 3 points 2 years ago

Feddit.uk - I figure regionality has benefit in keeping loads more spread, plus it hosts some good communities and a cute name.

[โ€“] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Well, I started my instance so it only makes sense that its also my home!

As for why I started an instance, I've always liked self-hosting stuff as its been one of the best ways I learn how stuff on the internet works, even more than I have learnt from doing some programming in my spare time. So it was an obvious move for me since I wanted to know more about how ActivityPub worked.

Originally I wasn't really planning on having open registration on my instance (otherwise I would've picked a better domain name, a bit late for that now) however as I saw Lemmy pick up pace, and the larger servers were starting to have issues, I figured that the best way I could give back was at least offer to share the load.

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[โ€“] PopularUsername@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Was the most upvoted comment on "how to get started with Lemmy". Also, some of these other places have super strange names, I get that it doesn't matter but when you know nothing it gives bad vibes.

[โ€“] jordanlund@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago

Heard lemmy.ml and lemmy.world were being overwhelmed.

[โ€“] HolaMojito@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago

Because of nationality

[โ€“] loaf@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Picked it for the name, stayed because of the community. A lot of super nice folks here on sh.itjust.works.

[โ€“] Mydispo@midwest.social 2 points 2 years ago

Iโ€™m in Kansas City so I joined https://midwest.social ๐Ÿ˜„

[โ€“] nychtelios@rlyeh.icu 2 points 2 years ago

I am hosting it lol

[โ€“] necrophagist@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

First I made one on ml. Then I made one on kbin because everyone said ml was a bunch of tankies and had some shady shit going on. Then none of the apps supported kbin so now I made one on world. Lol and I have no idea which one between world and ml I'm even posting from right now since I'm logged into both on liftoff

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[โ€“] voidf1sh@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

[โ€“] gasey@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Would you be down to tell me what the LGBT-positive and getting off instances that you like are? Asking for a friend ๐Ÿ˜‰

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[โ€“] spamspeicher@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago

Es ist Deutschland hier!

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