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[–] ratboy@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I signed up with beehaw first, but realized that they were defederated from lemmygrad, which I wanted access to. As I became more acquainted with lemmy and started looking into the "flavors" of the different instances, I joined lemmy.ml because they are unapologetic communists and won't defederate with lemmygrad.

As an aside, it's fucking insane to me that lemmygrad is so controversial yet there's crickets about exploding-heads and people are happy to be on instances that don't block them. Cool

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[–] writerlygal@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I chose lemm.ee because it came highly recommended and rightfully so. Great management and great communities too

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[–] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 2 points 2 years ago

I run my own private instance so I am in control over my own data.

Tbh, I don’t think it matters what server you choose. Lemmy.world, Lemmy.ml, and Beehaw seem to be the big ones so picking a server that federates with those would be ideal.

[–] nychtelios@rlyeh.icu 2 points 2 years ago

I am hosting it lol

[–] Deez@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

I have has a journey through a few instances.

I first applied to Lemmy.ml because I was interested in open source. I also applied at Lemmy.one and Beehaw because they were recommended on join-lemmy.

I got accepted at Beehaw. Then they defederated from Lemmy.world and sh.it. Stayed on Beehaw for a while but found a few communities on world that I couldn’t join, so decided to sign up to world.

World was having performance issues and I realised I could no longer interact with the Beehaw communities and people I had started talking with.

Then found lemm.ee I like the name, it hadn’t been defederated by any other instances, had good up time, was on the latest Lemmy code, and the admin seemed to know what they were doing, so joined that one. I don’t see myself moving again any time soon.

[–] voidf1sh@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

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[–] FracturedChaos@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

The name of the instance made me laugh.

[–] hyperdriveguy@vlemmy.net 2 points 2 years ago

I chose mine because it disallows NSFW on its own communities and takes a hard stance against defederation while not being defederated. I want to have more control over my feed and not be isolated.

[–] TheCatfish@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

•Lemmy.ml - Signed up here first, was recommended to it as a general place to sign up to

•Lemmy.blahaj.zone - Egg memes, blåhaj memes, just memes

•Lemmy.world - Handy for extra world news communities

•Lemmynsfw.com - Do I need to explain. This is under a different name, but I've kinda used that name over on the other place and I'm slowly bringing my content over (plus new stuff)

I only use one and four regularly

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[–] aessedai@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago

On the day I signed up, 18.0 was rolling out and lemmy.one was the only one that worked on Jerboa. I wanted to try out the different apps and see what worked well so that was where I started. I also have an account on lemmy.world but I don't think it's necessary unless there's a problem with lemmy.one. might still use another server if I can create my own community there.

[–] minthenry@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Not seeing anyone mentioning lemmy.one and I'm starting to think I made a bad choice.

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[–] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Trans, pan, 196, and Blahaj is friend.

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[–] lodion@aussie.zone 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wanted an instance specifically for Australians... so I made one 😀

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[–] loaf@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Picked it for the name, stayed because of the community. A lot of super nice folks here on sh.itjust.works.

[–] PopularUsername@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Was the most upvoted comment on "how to get started with Lemmy". Also, some of these other places have super strange names, I get that it doesn't matter but when you know nothing it gives bad vibes.

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I signed up with lemmy.ml originally, but then it was a little hugged to death. I couldn't update my community, couldn't post pictures or anything and I kept getting errors.

I went through the list that was only like 10 servers or something at the time, found slrpnk.net which had the vibes of the subreddit I run and found a new home for NoLawns. The guy who runs it seems pretty cool when I had to reach out to him so I've made it my home.

I did also just make a kbin the other day to see what that's all about too but with no app (yet there's a few in the works), I've stuck here.

[–] tyfi@wirebase.org 2 points 2 years ago

I wanted a server that had fast posting and browsing

Then I learned that some of the larger servers aren't federating with each other, which made me happy I went this route

https://wirebase.org, FYI

[–] Armetron@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

So I joined lemmy.world because I use to be a user of reddit is fun, rip, and in their going away message they mentioned .world. So I joined that instance not realizing how the fediverse works.

Overall what I've seen is the instance you join determines your "front page" since by default it will be set to show local communities. Other than that subscribe to any community from any instance then set your front page to show "subscribed" or "all" and you get your basic Reddit experience

[–] Mydispo@midwest.social 2 points 2 years ago

I’m in Kansas City so I joined https://midwest.social 😄

[–] necrophagist@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

First I made one on ml. Then I made one on kbin because everyone said ml was a bunch of tankies and had some shady shit going on. Then none of the apps supported kbin so now I made one on world. Lol and I have no idea which one between world and ml I'm even posting from right now since I'm logged into both on liftoff

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[–] MouseWithBeer@iusearchlinux.fyi 2 points 2 years ago

A friend owns it and it has a funny domain. Bonus of it being smaller is that it didn't have any performance issues yesterday/today.

[–] Owell1984@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

It's the first one I found and many others were filled with germans and I said "Nein"

[–] Mavedustaine@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Like most commenters here, because it was recommended and I'm a newbie at this.

Question though, if I create another account on say lemm.ee, is there a way for me to migrate my subscribed communities?

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 years ago

I do not have a link so this isn't very helpful but yesterday I saw someone posted that they had made something to do exactly this. I wish I could remember what community I saw it in. You may have to do some digging. Knew I should've saved it...

[–] dan@upvote.au 2 points 2 years ago

I'm hosting my own. I had a free server with 9GB RAM and 99GB disk space, and it was only running my Mastodon server until now. I like the freedom to do what I want with the server :)

[–] spamspeicher@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago

Es ist Deutschland hier!

I owned a funny domain

[–] esty@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)
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