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Y'all are in the mood for music when you're depressed?
Yeah I cry to sad songs when I'm depressed.
When I'm happy, I try not to listen to sad music because it brings the mood down. But when you're already feeling like shit, sad music helps you feel even worse. LPT
Lately, its been Oni by Swersvlt. The mood of just staring miserably into space wile zoning out.
Magnolia Electric Co - The Dark Donβt Hide It or Just Be Simple
Mogwai - Helicon 2
Broken Social Scene - Lovers Spit
The Burgundian lullaby perhaps
Desperados Under the Eaves (but really, lots of Warren Zevon songs)
That's the Way the World Goes Round (John Prine)
Doomed by I Prevail
Solace by Earl Sweatshirt.
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There is a small indie band called Kabir Cafe, whose songs are inspired by a 14th-15th century poet- philosopher called Kabir. Those are some amazing songs to hear to.
Have been too depressed for too many decades. Lost the ability to enjoy music. Miss it, but anytime I try it feels contrived and I hear people from my past deriding my selections for various reasons.
https://youtu.be/lSWv9qodOAs?si=teXNFUnC19ETe6TB Al Green - How Can You Mend a Broken Heart.
I especially like how the βrain falling downβ metaphor comes back when heβs going off and he says, βMy clothes are all wet, tell me!β
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Liquor Bottle by Herbal T. Has a nice faux-upbeat rhythm with jazzy kinda beats, but lyrics.are dark. Definitely helps me keep a sane face on the dark days:
And that's why / I keep a
A liquor bottle in the freezer βͺ
In case I gotta take it out β«
Mix me a drink
To help me
Forget all the things
In my life that I worry about βͺ β«
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Yoko Kanno and Seat Belts - Blue
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You just won't lie down. Even closing your eyes, you can't let it go, Surrounded inside. Leave it alone. You don't get it back Undoing the scenes you can't explain, Whatever you dream That you've buried away. It seems like you're there as someone removed And left in their place with nothing to do. Bound to the switch. Railing again at the thought of the fight For well-earned dissent Undeserved at the time. As you've been shown, the motion has gone A shade of the night, only leading you on.
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For any mundane depression, (you're gonna laugh, they're all gonna laugh at me) it's OK to laugh at this, believe it or not my go to song is "On a Clear Day" Yes that song from the musical of the same name. Stupid, I know - but it does the trick. For seasonal depression, my go to is "Sleigh Ride." How can you feel blue when you're balls are bouncing on a sleigh over the snowy hills and through the woods?
Bad Life by Sigrid+Bring Me The Horizon. Very on-the-nose but it's a damn good song.
808 OG trap beats
Whipping boy - we don't need nobody else
Saddy Daddy-O by Artimus Wolz, which is also a bop
Eye of the Tiger
I'm a big music snob, and I'm in my forties, but Decompression Period by Papa Roach hit me really hard the first time I heard it, and it's always one I go back to. I've never had a bad breakup or anything, but it really captures the feeling for me.
Giving up by Corbin and sodus cementeries
Deerhunter - helicopters
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The Depression Song by Caroline Konstnar
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Orchid Mantis - Flashbulb Memory
I've got a whole fucking playlist for real sadboy hours on rainy drives home where I want to get lost in the back of my mind and it's like 50% this band.
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After opening the news and gandering at the state of the world for a different perspective; I drop back to AJR - Way Less Sad.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlVhUbGa2pg
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The whole soundtrack (and game) is wonderful, and it develops across the album through to hope. The first few tracks though, they take me back to a point of great sorrow and straight through the stages of grief.