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Got the idea of posting this when I watched this YouTube video that talks about reasons men love playing as girls.

Why do you do it?
Are there more than one reason?
What do you enjoy about it the most?

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[–] icermiga@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't mind what sex my character is, my character is not me and I don't see why I would mind what sex my character is. Like, especially in a video game, the scenario is usually quite fantastic and nothing that my character does (e.g. acrobatics, shooting, running for more than 18 seconds without collapsing out of breath, etc.) gives me a sense that they are a version of me. My character should be random or whatever the writers thought would be most appropriate for the themes or story or whatever.

(I did not watch the linked video)

[–] tal@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There are some exceptions -- I like playing Nightmare, who is male, in the Soul Calibur series, due to his moveset -- but absent broader gameplay considerations coming up, I'll default to a female choice. I'd rather look at the female character through the course of the game.

considers

I play very few multiplayer games. The last time I was playing a 3D multiplayer game much was a long time ago, probably a Quake 2-based Team Fortress-style game, and then I played a male character, an engineer, because of his role.

I haven't played MUDs for ages, but there I generally played a male character.

Sometimes games attach some sort of gameplay benefits on a gender-basis (e.g. male or female characters have slightly different stats or characteristics), and then I'll sometimes choose the main character's gender based on that, but that's become less-common, maybe not politically-correct. Mount and Blade: Warband does that -- it's a medieval world and male and female characters have significantly-different roles there; there I'll play a male character. The Fallout series had a long tradition of having the Black Widow/Lady Killer perk work differently based on a character's gender; it's generally advantageous to play a female character there.

I like vidya waifus

[–] DarkGamer@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

It depends on what kind of character I want to RP; sometimes that's a dude, sometimes not.

[–] cordlesslamp@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago

When the game allowed, I make my character to look like my then-gf (now my wife), and named it after her. Idk, I think she's cute and I would like to see her more.

Funny thing is I've never told her this and she have no idea why I always alt-tab out of my game when she walked by (she knows I'm not playing something that would upset her like a porn games or something like that because she can see what I'm playing from afar. She just can't see the character'name or details from that distance).

[–] wulrus@programming.dev 2 points 1 year ago
[–] Lipriv30@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Jill Valentine and Claire Redfield. Oh yeah. <3

[–] gaael@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

I'm a big fan of women kicking ass, and videogames are usually designed to make my character kick a lot af asses. So female-looking character is great for me !

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I do both, lol.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I don't, tbh

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

Watched video too, and it gave me an insight: feminine characters lay better on my gentle and caring personality, allowing me to better express myself.

I can play such caracter more organically, and there's also less social friction when in multiplayer (interestingly, even when party knows I am, in fact, male)

[–] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

They're trans and just don't know it yet. There may seem like there other reasons, but that's just the denial speaking.

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Unironically, sometimes I'd like to be a chameleon that can turn female-looking in a whim (and back, if desired)

Games make it incredibly easy.

Not trans, though. Genderfluid? Maybe. But I still need my masculinity.

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[–] l0st_scr1b3@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Young me : because egg

[–] NostraDavid@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I don't, mostly because I watched Asmongold talk about it, and now I feel weird playing with a female character online.

Though singleplayer I don't feel any problems: Lara Croft, Rynn, Chell, Rayne, Jade - it's all fine.

Maybe it's just for customizable characters?

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[–] Sensitivezombie@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago

It makes no difference to me.

[–] trslim@pawb.social 1 points 1 year ago

I tend to play both, as I have set builds for set character names. First time playthrough in a soul's game? Maxwell is the name (though Maxwell is one of the few characters that I have played as both male and female.) Making a sniper build? Novikova is da girl for the job. A viking or warlord? Kaytlyn is my go to. Stealth? Garrett will get in and out.

I like having a roster to characters of any gender to pick from. Though, I admit, I tend to gravitate towards making femboy type characters lol.

[–] Doxatek@mander.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

When I was young I learned to pick a female character and people would be way more nice to me and helpful when I was new and give me stuff.

Well, for one, I play role playing games. So, I like to experience different roles, different ways of thinking, and playing as someone like FemShep or female V in Cyberpunk offers a much different perspective on life than if I played as a male. I'm a male, I go outside as a male, why do the same thing in gaming?

And for a second reason, if I'm playing a third person shooter why would I (a straight male) want to stare at a man's ass for 120ish hours?

[–] dino@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago

But I never do? :(

[–] vortexal@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

It depends on the game. If the gender has an effect on the stats or gameplay, I may choose a female character if I think it would either benefit my character build or make the gameplay more interesting. If it's just cosmetic, I will play as a female if I think the male characters look ugly and the game doesn't have a femboy option.

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