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I'm really worried about the state of the US despite being a white male who was I'll coast right through it. I'll also accept "I don't" and "very poorly" as answers

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[–] Reddfugee42@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

There's tons of evidence that the world is getting better. Life expectancies are the highest they've ever been, disease is the lowest it's ever been, globalization is distributing opportunities for relative prosperity to previously ignored or neglected regions. The only thing that's not getting better right now is climate change but the youth care about that more than ever so it seems like we'll make headway on that once the old guard ends their watch. The youth are aldo much more progressive so with their ascent to power, I expect more power to return to the people and more scrutiny to befall the rich and powerful as it once was.

What sort of critical life and death issues are getting worse in your perspective?

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Pretty well. The resistance lives. We are all part of it.

[–] loutr@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

We are all part of it.

I'm spending the holidays with close and extended family. Most of them don't give a fuck about the climate crisis or gaza. They're very worried about migrants and wokism though. Feeling pretty alone right now...

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[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

life is temporary.

im hangin on to the ride until i get thrown off. its my only shot, even if it sucks donkey balls

i guess my answer would be 'dont sweat the small stuff. its all small stuff'

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I focus on one thing at a time in my sphere of influence.

[–] PanArab@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

That’s a very relative and personal question. Because for me the world is getting better. Not everyone lives in the US, here we graduate university with money saved instead of being in debt

[–] flamingarms@feddit.uk 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah, this is why I've urged so many people to shop around for a country like they do a job. See what country aligns with your values, with your goals, with benefits, etc. and start working to get there. You don't have to stay miserable if you feel like your country is not where you want it to be and you're not the one to help fix it.

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Stoicism. Is there something that I can do about it?No. Is it under my control to change this? No. Then I move on and do the best I can be a better person and be more empathetic.

[–] endhits@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Got news for you, if you're working class, being white or male will not let you "coast right through" the inevitable boom/bust cycles that will befall the economies. You'll be under the boot like everyone else.

[–] 31337@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

Using the Serenity Prayer as inspiration (though I'm an atheist and not an addict), I try to accept what I cannot change, and change the things I can.

I also try to keep busy with hobbies such as gardening and woodworking.

I suppose I should probably try to get into some type of activism or community type stuff, but I'm not at all an outgoing type of person.

[–] Godric@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (8 children)

β€œI wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo. β€œSo do I,” said Gandalf, β€œand so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

Worry without action is of no tangible use. If you just worry, ACT!

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[–] AuntieFreeze@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Going fishing.

[–] berrodeguarana@lemmy.eco.br 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I try to remind myself that, in the great scheme of things (i.e, evolution) a "step forward, two steps back" is a common thing in this chaotic universe of ours.

Meteors, dinosaurs, civil wars, capitalism issues, pandemics, murder, genocide, climatic changes... it's all accounted for.

Of course, the answer is different if you are suffering directly from these things (apart from the meteors and dinosaurs) I mentioned above, then things suddenly get VERY personal and provoke impulsive reactions from our end.

[–] vortexal@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I do what I can to just ignore it. Sure, I don't have a lot and my life is pretty shitty but I always remember that someone somewhere else probably has it significantly worse. Also, while I know it's morbid to think like this, I know that if things get really bad, there will always be a way out.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

the fact that the world isn't getting any better

I think you've beggared (begged) the question.

[–] SuperSpruce@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 year ago

By doing things that make me happy.

[–] Jakdracula@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not getting better?

What are you basing that belief on?

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[–] zbyte64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago

A way of life is ending, but life will go on. Frankly I'm rooting for gas to be more expensive.

[–] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago
[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

The only things worth worrying about are the things that you can control. Don’t worry about who wins the election, just worry about your vote. Don’t worry about what you don’t have, take joy in the things you do have.

Find your village, whether that’s the community of your favorite hobby, a group of local friends, or your family and invest in them and not a politician, celebrity, or athlete.

There is always a reason to find joy.

[–] bane_killgrind@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

Be the change you want to see man

[–] socsa@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I think about how things actually were 50 years ago, and how every generation since the dawn of written history has the same exact end times mythology and then correctly conclude that I am merely suffering from the same delusion as nearly every human prior to me.

Also I own a glock and three bullets.

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[–] davel@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Like so: hammer-sickle

We can’t capitalism our way out of what we capitalismed ourselves into. It’s socialism or barbarism.

[–] Trollivier@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

2023 has been a calamity for my health, both physical and mental. The state of things doesn't help. I'm better now. Touching wood.

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