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I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[–] S_204@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The same assholes who were on Reddit being pieces of shit are here too.

It's the internet, everything is reduced to being shitty within weeks of getting noticed.

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[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Anecdotally, I’ve seen more spam lately too.

Btw, what are we calling aggressive chat bots? Auto-trolls? Strife bots? Contentionator-3000s?

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[–] rabiddolphin@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

I'll downvote all of you

The number of trolls is going to increase as the user base increases.

Plus, you get the same negative effects of the echo chambers like Reddit did, but I think the communities being so small amplifies the effect.

[–] gnutrino@programming.dev 8 points 1 year ago

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor.

You should ask a police officer how some neighbours talk to each other...

[–] ElderWendigo@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I posted a cookie recipe in response to a cookie meme, got roasted for not converting baking units to science units. So yeah, people are getting kinda aggressive.

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[–] boywar3@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Never forget the way the human brain works, with the more common interpretation being: "it takes 7 instances of positive things to outweigh 1 negative."

For my part I haven't really noticed any difference, but I only infrequently comment!

[–] paraphrand@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Many will tell you this is normal and just how the internet is.

How depressing.

[–] Commiunism@lemmy.wtf 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah, I feel the comments are getting worse as well, though from seeing the upvote numbers and less tankies/hexbears, I'm guessing some old folks are leaving and new people are joining. Guess it's only natural.

[–] vonbaronhans@midwest.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I blocked hexbear not because of their political beliefs, but because they would fucking ruin entire content sections by being super annoying.

I'm also glad to see your comment not triggering the same brigading behavior I used to see a lot more often.

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[–] Hackerman_uwu@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The halcyon days of Lemmy lasted a week or so. As soon as you have mods coming over for Reddit you have all the shit they are schlepoed along with them. I’m only in here when I’m shitting and then only because I’ve memorised the blurb on the back of the air freshener can already.

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[–] gullible@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

I honestly haven't noticed any changes. 2 months after the rexodus and the honeymoon phase ended, things stabilized. Some drama with tankies but not much else. People here are just as generally rude or kind as they’ve ever been.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I've said it before, Lemmy is a fickle place.

I expect it will get better with time as we get more users.

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