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I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[–] clearleaf@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Not just the comments. It used to be page 4 or 5 where the hate/rage content would start appearing in the top posts. But it's been creeping up, and now even page 1 looks pretty bad sometimes. I bet even Americans are starting to feel alienated if they're not perpetually angry.

[–] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I kinda started getting that feeling too but I thought that was because I started getting more involved in discussions and political ones more. Before it was mainly quick comments for me. Anyways if someone starts to insult or deliberately distort what I am saying by cherry picking combinations of words from my comments, I put on my "three words at most troll hat" and the discussion dies pretty quickly. No point in writing a paragraph for a comment if the other person is just gonna take one word out of it and bash the rest with it.

[–] Aradia@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

When they are insulting should mean that they have no arguments... maybe they have issues on their life. Who knows, but it's a waste of time to reply to them.

[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

All I know is the tanky and red scare shit took a steep nose dive.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

every time I see a full page meme in the middle of a comments thread I want to punch a hole right through its face

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[–] snausagesinablanket@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Especially the grammar Nazis that floated here on a turd from the reddit cesspool.

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[–] Omega_Haxors@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A couple days ago someone was trying to debatebro me I told them to eff off and that I wasn't going to humor their bad-faith ass.

Was expecting to get hate for it but instead woke up to 20 votes on the comment. It's awesome.

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