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How do you make proper "I am interested in you." eye contact? (lemmy.world)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by FatTony@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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I have heard from multiple people that eye contact is essential in letting a girl (or guy, I guess) know you're interested.

But what is the 411 when it comes to said eye contact? Do you keep looking until she does? Do you then keep staring? Or is like looking at the sun? What's the deal?

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[–] Melatonin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Wink and point. Licking your lips is good too. Also, the Elvis lip curl. Bite your lower lip.

There are so many.

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[–] occultist8128@infosec.pub 1 points 4 months ago

sometimes i keep looking until she does, sometimes i keep staring at her. it doesn't matter, based on the condition

[–] DudeImMacGyver@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 months ago

Hell if I know, it just seems to happen. I don't think I can consciously do it.

[–] hark@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It's all in the eyebrows.

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[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 1 points 4 months ago

no amount of body language can replace real, audible, words.

[–] madeinthebackseat@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago

Adding a smile goes a long way, or at least it used to.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz -4 points 4 months ago (2 children)

You're a grownup. Use your words.

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