Ransom

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[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 months ago

Given what happened in Rwanda 30 years ago, and given that we haven’t seen a repeat since then, I think Kagame is doing a good job. I’m not sure how I feel about him being in power for so long, but I also don’t think we’re in the best place to judge (the West) given how abysmally we failed Rwanda over the past 200 years.

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 3 points 8 months ago

ABA, which the article suggests, is also inhumane.

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 10 points 9 months ago (9 children)

What’s the original?

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I love this! Thanks for sharing!

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 6 points 10 months ago
[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

It’s exhausting to be the research assistant for people who aren’t willing to put in the work. (Not saying that that’s OP.) It’s more within my capacity to point out where someone is making a gaffe and have them do the work to figure out why. I’ve been internetting since Telnet days and nothing has changed: people aren’t interested in sources you find for them, esp. on highly charged topics like this.

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

perspectives from people who dealt with more impairing issues (eg problems getting dressed, basic hygiene, trouble to communicate basic needs etc)

So those are all me. ABA still sucks. Im okay with admitting that, but I would think that you’d have to be pretty vulnerable to share that info, and not everyone is there. Maybe you have received perspectives from people with those issues who have chosen to not communicate those aspects of their selves.

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 year ago (15 children)

There is no defense for ABA, period. ABA techniques were adapted for gay conversion therapy, which says a lot. ABA absolutely does not help anyone to learn important skills, but forces people to hide who they are to avoid shame and punishment. It’s abusive, causes trauma, and is not okay.

The use of “levels” is also profoundly problematic. Google it.

I understand what you’re looking for, but happily talking about ABA in an autism space is like asking LGBTQ folks about their positive experiences with gay conversion therapy. Others might feel differently, but some of us have been affected by our past experiences and don’t really care to be reminded of them.

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If you mean the last one, then yes, it’s necessary for some breeds (schnauzers, for instance).

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago (8 children)

This isn’t new information — traumatologists have known this for a long, long time. Glad that info like this is making news in the NY Times, though!

[–] Ransom@lemmy.ca 50 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I use it and pronounce it like “Mix”

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