this post was submitted on 28 Dec 2024
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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.


Posting Guidelines

All posts should follow this basic structure:

  1. Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?
  2. What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?
  3. Provide a screenshot of the relevant modlog entry (don’t de-obfuscate mod names).
  4. Provide a screenshot and explanation of the cause of the sanction (e.g. the post/comment that was removed, or got you banned).
  5. Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

Rules


Expect to receive feedback about your posts, they might even be negative.

Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.

YTPB matrix channel: For real-time discussions about bastards or to appeal mod actions in YPTB itself.


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And apparently, also when you think that 'They' is a perfectly serviceable gender-neutral singular pronoun, but are willing to use other pronouns if asked to.

EDIT: Other removable offenses on Blahaj now include questioning mod/admin decisions and quoting the modlog as a reason why you're leaving.

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[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Gatekeeping whether dragonfucker is a gender is a weird hill to die for. Perhaps equally odd is permabanning for it.

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not featured is the key piece of information. Blahaj is specifically a trans safe space. Pronouns are kind of a big deal in that community. Telling them they aren't really LGBTQ unless you approve of their pronouns is not going to go over well.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 5 points 1 month ago

It is all good, everybody is just learning to avoid such places. This how fediverse is developed.

[–] chocosoldier@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

It would be, if that were what happened. What actually happened is someone on a trans instance with a non-binary identity (who, i might note, had the username dragonfucker, afaict extending that term to drag's gender identity is an embellishment) uses neopronouns, some people got butthurt about it and argued with drag about drag's identity being "real", and the admin rightfully drew a line in the sand about misgendering people.

The tl;dr is this dude got told not to intentionally misgender people whether he thinks someone's identity is valid or not, and he lost his shit over not being allowed to gatekeep queer people on a queer instance and left of his own accord.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe -1 points 1 month ago

accurate analysis