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[–] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 139 points 1 day ago (6 children)

I have a Tesla that, for financial reasons, I can't get out of for another couple few months and while it is one of my favorite cars I've ever driven (and I've driven many), I can no longer enjoy driving it because Musk is a piece of shit that deserves cancer. Looking at Lucid and Rivian now.

I also used to believe America was a great country, but in my late 20s started to realize it's bullshit (I'm in my 40s now). It was kind of a sad realization and it has only gotten worse since then.

I also used to believe more in people and their ability for empathy and, if presented the facts, they'd ultimately make good decisions. I now believe people are generally selfish and narcissistic, and that most don't give a shit about facts and live entirely on off-the-cuff emotion. It doesn't stop me from caring and trying to help (some) of them, but it's definitely made me more wary and paranoid.

[–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

So you'll buy another car, while you mention financial problems, just because the (ex-) CEO of the manufacturer is a piece of shit?

[–] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago

Yes. Because in my area Tesla's are being spray painted and kicked. Which also has financial implications.

[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Surely there can be some symbol or obvious modification to let people know when you own a Tesla but disown the talking head at the top.

[–] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 1 points 15 hours ago

I mean, I guess I could put stickers on it and stuff, but I live near Portland and the Tesla vanadalizing is pretty wild here. Not sure it'd do much.

I've actually been taking an old gas truck around lately just so I don't have to be seen in it. But it sucks because the Tesla costs me like $20/month to drive and the truck costs like $30/week.

[–] Winter8593@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Felt this. I haven't really ever felt proud of America. It was weird growing up with immigrant parents, proud of their new homeland, just for me to learn of all its atrocities across the world and be like: "y'all moved here for this? They murdered and raped your birth country!" I really want to be more optimistic and hopeful, it's just so hard with everything going on and how overt the racists are these days.

[–] herzberd@lemmy.blahaj.zone 36 points 1 day ago

I also used to believe America was a great country, but in my late 20s started to realize it's bullshit

Honestly I was 100% bought in when I was like 19. I'm still a big believer in what the Constitution stands for (at least as it means to me), but I fully understand that I got duped by the branding with that one. It has been exceptionally radicalizing and upsetting to see how few of my countrymen believe in the dream of America as I do. May we one day live up to our lofty ideals.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I went here as well, but managed to turn it around. I now have more belief in America being a great country, but as an ideal, as something we need to work hard toward. I’ve become a lot more progressive as I see what it would take to live up to this myth about ourselves. Let’s do it. Let’s do it for our children, for the next generation, for a better world tomorrow! Lets start small and local, be the neighbor you thought you had, show the empathy we all deserve, make America a Community again

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago

Are you me? I was about to post the exact same thing, almost verbatim.