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What's the hardest thing you had to come to terms with? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 day ago by SpaceFox@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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For me it was the fact that I would always be slower than everyone else and I would have to put in twice the effort.

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[–] Elaine@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I feel this in my soul unfortunately. Learned some wild stuff about my family not too long ago and it’s hard to reconcile things now.

[–] Anissem@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago

Same, not recent but I have a long list of eye opening facts I’ve collected throughout my life. Eventually you just accept it all. It’s not been easy to get to this point, it took a lot of mental anguish to get this numb to it all.