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What's the hardest thing you had to come to terms with? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 day ago by SpaceFox@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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For me it was the fact that I would always be slower than everyone else and I would have to put in twice the effort.

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[–] SomGye@dormi.zone 12 points 23 hours ago

Realizing that I'll never be able to achieve any of my previous hopes or "dreams", it's too late, and that life is fundamentally uneven and unfair.
Similarly, realizing there's no sense of "karma" or balance in real life, it's just a crutch that people can use to justify or rationalize things.