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[–] pixxelkick@lemmy.world 99 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

I like to use partner even though I'm in a hetero relationship just cuz it sounds better.

Also just to normalize it.

Calling my fiance my partner makes me feel like we are a pair of ranch hands in the wild west, instead of two introverted weebs :3

[–] FundMECFSResearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Same. I say my partner, because also girlfriend sounds too casual for what we have, but we aren’t married. It’s just very useful and gender neutral term.

[–] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 11 points 12 hours ago

Sounds too casual

My partner and I just had this conversation recently. We don't want to get married because we don't see a point in bringing bureaucracy into our relationship. But we've been through too much to just be "dating" still. So, they're my partner

[–] Caesium@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

I like to use 'datemate' cause the term seems really cute to me