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You seriously can't type whatever dae means?
DAE is a fairly common acronym on online forums, often used in titles such as these. You could have Googled (or DuckDuckGo) to learn its meaning π
It's simply "does anyone else."
I did, my comment stands
It's clearly not that common.
Never saw that abbreviation before, but my assumption is it's "does anyone else" since I can't think of anything else that'd make sense in this context
Yes, that's accurate. My point is that typing that out isn't hard and opens the post up to all who know English.
Iβve been online for almost thirty years and have never - knowingly - seen βdaeβ as an abbreviation.
I don't believe you. DAE has been an extremely common abbreviation for well over a decade at least.
TIL Iβm a liarβ¦
I didn't say you lied, just saying that there's no way you've been on the internet for 30 years and have never seen DAE anywhere before now.
Well now you have two people you are calling liars.
Maybe, and hear me out: you're wrong.
You seem like a young man so that's not something anyone has told you before, so what I would recommend is reaching out and finding a stable position to hold on to for 30-60 seconds. once you've recovered, your brain will automatically go to work trying to find out why you're actually right, actually, like for real. Suppress that feeling for a moment and accept that yes, your life experience is different from others. And then find a nice therapist because let's be honest after that shock to your system you'll need one.
You people are so intent on projecting the idea that I'm calling you liars despite the fact that I never once said nor implied you were liars, that yeah, I'm going to just go ahead and say youre fucking liars now. Have a good day.
I can. Be nice and I might.
Creep
If you wish to be understood, choose your words more carefully. If you wish to be treated with kindness, drop the defensiveness, learn to process feedback objectively, and take communication seriously. No one is being unkind or unreasonable here, except you.
That initial comment is quite pointed...
Yours is pretty over the top as well, lol.
βNo one knows what the heck dae means you lazy bum. We invented words for a reason, try using them. If youβre illiterate then maybe try a YouTube video essay. β
If someone said that, sure⦠but no one did. Perhaps the Original Poster needs to take communication more seriously and less personally.
I think you're making a significant deal out of something that is quite minor, personally. It's okay, though. It's minor, so we can agree to disagree. Cheers!
The basics of human communication is nothing important at all. π€‘
Chill out, man. This isn't parliament. Everything doesn't have to be communicated as if we're drafting laws.
Communication styles vary greatly, and tone is dependent on setting. What OP posted was completely fine. No need to throw around clown emoji π
MSGFYKB
This isn't the gotcha you think it is. There's a slight difference in using a well established acronym vs. a personally made-up one π
You're essentially getting upset that someone used a word that you aren't familiar with. With that, you're comparing someone using this unfamiliar word to the use of a non-existant word.
When you encounter a word you dont know, you look it up in a dictionary. You don't call out the author on their communication skills (rudely, mind you).
I'm really trying to be cordial here, and I really don't mean to cause upset, but you must see where I'm coming from, no?
Acrynoms arenβt words. Your argument is moot.
Way to completely miss my point. For someone who touts communication, your skills are severely lacking. Have a nice day.
May you have a nice day as well. You should try not to take things so personally. If you'd like to learn how and when you use Abbreviations and Acronyms you can do so here: https://owl.purdue.edu/owl/subject_specific_writing/journalism_and_journalistic_writing/ap_style.html
Christ, how insufferable. I dont know what I expected. Welcome to the block list I guess.
Your inability to deal with loss is what will inevitably hold you back. You chose to argue, and you lost. You wonβt get a stomach ache from swallowing your pride, but you will isolate yourself to a sad echo chamber if you choose to block and sedate everyone and everything that hurts your feelings.
It's an abbreviation on the internet. Do you act this way any time you see TIL, wtf, eli5 or other. Or are you just sour you don't know this one
Youβre entitled to your opinion. Is there anything else youβd like to say?