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I can honestly say I have thoroughly enjoyed my time as a federal worker.
Right now I'm working on my resume. I'm open to work, preferably in finance as I have my accounting degree. If you know of anyone hiring please let me know.
As I have mentioned before, please do not post your political beliefs as I am not interested in debates or opinions. During this time, please remember that government employees are workers at risk of losing their job. It's scary as most of us have dedicated our careers to government and government operations is all that most of us know and now will be forced to look outside for other options and start over. No matter which side everyone is one, no one wants to lose their job so please be mindful of this. Remember that government employees are humans too and it is a very scary time for most of us and our families.
first of all, don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's really tough to hold back sometimes. if you can't hold it back, that's okay! sometimes, people do need to be told when they're being cunts sometimes.
but what does help me a bit is really going all-in on the "kill with kindness" thing, really just turning on all the southern charm and hokum. i find playing that character to be quite funny, so it feels less like i'm being taken for a ride, it's more like i have a private joke.
also, i think it really helps to find some common ground, even for some of the worst people imaginable, they'll usually say at least something you agree with, even if it's something silly, like you both like the same video game - i always start with the common ground, people are way more receptive when you open with "yes, i agree with you, and...", that's honestly been really effective for me.
if you look through my history you'll find plenty of evidence of me not taking my own advice. but i'm trying, and i'm trying to bring others with me
i don't think we all need to be perfect, if we can all just try a little bit
I'm in a comment chain with you elsewhere in this post, but I've seen you responding a lot and though I think anyone unwilling to push a "fascists go poof forever" button is part of the problem, it seems like you really believe in positivity and I have to commend you for that. Best of luck with the deradicalization effort. Really hope you're taking care of yourself.
thank you for your thoughtful comment, sometimes it's tough, i wake up to usually 10+ replies telling me i'm wrong and that i'm basically hitler, and a bunch of DMs just throwing hate at me, so nice comments are a nice change of pace!
btw, if it helps, i'd totally press that button if it existed! sadly, it doesn't, and can't exist. fascism isn't something that you're born with, it's an evil that grows inside us. none of us are immune, and probably all of us are dealing with a mild infection.
that's where all the hate and vitriol comes from. that's the dark part of us that enjoys seeing others suffer, and wants to solve our problems with violence, and wants to see everything in black and white.
we've been violently anti-fascist for nearly 100 years now, nazi is literally one of the most insulting things you can be called, and most people would happily look the other way if you punched a nazi. if violence and hate was an effective way of fighting fascism, we wouldn't be in this situation. it's just not effective
one mr. alan dulles might disagree. look up that dude's entire career.
I think we were violently anti-fascist at any scale for about five minutes when the fascists fucked with the bag, and for that we turned the shattered glass in german streets to liquid. then went home and put slightly lower profile fascists right back in charge, poached their best fascists, and used their worst nazi murderhobo bastards to do "anti communism" around the world for the next thirty years while they trained up the next generation. the ones who were put in charge in japan weren't even low profile fascists. emperor stayed emperor, and a guy whose nickname was 'the monster of', who had a full time assistant to mop up the cum from all the rape he did while he ran the official military rape program, ran japan, his family stayed regular providers of prime ministers until some dude popped one with a homemade shotgun-gadget a couple years ago
i know that, i mean among the working class. tolerance for listening to a friend spouting nazi shit and fascist shit has been pretty low until recently, dogwhistles not withstanding. i mean there's a reason they dogwhistle so much, it's because their views are roundly rejected and they get bullied when they don't hide their beliefs
if that level of hate, aggression, suppression, etc. isn't enough to prevent the rise of fascism, it won't be enough to slow or stop it either. we need different tactics