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If you're not middle aged, pick a younger age, IDK

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[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Actual answer: they would probably be surprised by how fat I am. I was underweight at that point in my life and now am over and generally less fit (multiple broken bones and surgery will do that). They would be surprised I had any interest in Japan, let alone have been living there for a decade. They would kinda get it though; 19-year-old me was still on the fence about very rural or very urban life. Turns out middle-aged me would get both in one country. Not really playing any music would surprise then-me as well, though it has been something I've slightly dipped my toe back into, though they'd probably like that I played for thousands a handful of times and have credits on a few albums. That I went into homesteading would also surprise him to some degree, coming out as some combination of my grandfather and, to a lesser extent, my uncle who fucked off.

Former post: To avoid this and probably be generally better, I'd explain the current situation and say to be more active in government and vote more, but I was working at times 2-3 jobs and surviving off of dollar store boxed mashed potatoes at one point and, I forget whether 19 or 20, living out of my car surviving on wonderbread factor outlet leavings and peanut butter in addition to what my restaurant job would give.

[–] naught101@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The question is not "what advice would you give them?", but "What would they think of your current self?"

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

They would tell me to read better, apparently. I had meant to do a two-birds-one-stone sort of approach but swapped your final 'they' with a 'you'. Oopsie.

[–] naught101@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Nice recovery 😂