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[–] Lightor@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

This is just poorly thought out. You offer dessert and to pay, then classify it as food motivation. I mean it could be that he's happy you're paying, or happy you want to be out longer. If anything, he just ate, so food motivation would be at its lowest.

You're taking an animal that isn't as complex as humans or even has a concept of society, and trying to apply that to a person in a relationship. I think the thought is there, but the conclusions are a bit flawed.

[–] Redfox8@mander.xyz 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We're only more complex in that we have language systems so can assess situations in a more detailed way. The majority of the time we have pretty much the same instincts and responses to stimuli to many other animals because, in short, it takes less energy/effort. Being able to conceive society, something canines can do, doesn't stop other natural instincts. There is a level of simplification, yes, but this is a social media post, not a scientific study so it won’t explain every minute detail!

[–] Lightor@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

We’re only more complex in that we have language systems so can assess situations in a more detailed way.

In part yes. But we also have a society. We have concepts of social norms that we created and evolved. We have expectations developed through a lifetime of education and media. A human from 50 years ago would feel lost in today's world, let alone a dog. We may be driven by some same basics, but we are more complex.

My point is that we can't talk to dogs like we can to humans. So we learn signs and try to interpret them as best we can. But interpretations are just that - interpretations. They can be wrong. A better method would be to talk and discuss the issue, removing the need for any guesswork.

[–] petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I mean it could be that he's happy you're paying, or happy you want to be out longer.

Oh, have you seen video of their lunch or something? You should post it, we can figure this out right now.

[–] Lightor@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That's my point. We don't know. She made a wild assumption based on terms used to train dogs.

[–] petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We don't know. Through grand powers of deduction, I assume she was in the room when it happened.

[–] Lightor@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah, you seem to be trying to make some point, but it's not landing.