Asklemmy

The section about pessimism is relatable. I spent a few months in my teen years in a chatroom with the topic of being outcasts in some way or another, before realizing it was a self-prophecising kind of toxic the same way that incel culture is, but there were some people ranting about how stupid people are and woe is me, I'm Cassandra! And my impression at the time was thinking they're probably an egotistical prick who thinks they're better than everyone else. But on the other hand, it is frustrating to see, less how 'dumb' people are but how ignorant people are. It's hard not to get a bit of ego at times. And this isn't about IQ for the most part, these issues are often caused or compounded by other problems with education, social values, propaganda/indoctrination and the lot. I guess I feel the activist frustrated enough to yell "why don't you care?" when obviously, rationally it's more complex than that.

This is a big issue in tech communities as it becomes more accessible, people are entering who aren't used to the DIY culture, who don't understand unsaid (or said) rules like asking smart questions to not waste everyone's time. The world is at your fingertips! Fucking put that question in a search engine first before you waste my time, my life has value goddammit! When I occasionally whine about reddit culture, that's a part of it. People who are curious (and that's perfect!) but don't realize they're asking questions they can learn the answer to themselves. It's like if we're talking about cooking and someone jumps in to ask "what is a herb?", it's a valid question, an important question, but for fucks sake you can learn that without asking us all! Or at least go to ELI5 & NoStupidQuestions where those questions are appropriate.

Keep in mind, that rant is specific to online questions, where you have the resources you need. It's more acceptable in a conversation, and I certainly don't want anyone to feel uncomfortable learning things.

Honestly, a community learning how to effectively direct people to an FAQ to onboard uninformed newcomers on answers and community expectations is the difference between a welcoming community and burned-out babysitters becoming toxic.