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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] ogmios@sh.itjust.works 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Most other people who you interact with aren't actually seeing you individually. Instead they are confronting images they've previously developed regarding one or two characteristics they noticed. Don't take what they say too personally.

Edit: Be aware that you do the same thing.

[–] minnow@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

Yeah, this is a very real phenomenon and it's difficult to do anything about it sometimes. People develope an internal profile of you based on their perceptions, and anything they say about you is based on THAT, not reality. It's even more difficult when it's somebody close to you who's internalized that profile so much it's become part of who they identify as. You'll see this with the parents of trans kids where the parent has internalized some aspect of their child and it's become part of their identity. "I'm the father of three sons" kind of thing. Then one of the kids comes out as female and the parent has a really difficult time with it because they identified themselves as the parent of three male children and that's turned out to be incorrect, they're the parent of two boys and one girl and they need to change how they identify themselves in addition to how they identify their daughter. Some parents have a really REALLY hard time of it (they still gotta do it though if they don't want to be a shitty person)