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Ok this is a stupid question, but am I not supposed to relate with the OP? Is it not just a normal part of being human. I get my most frustrated when I get something "wrong" like the OP describes because I didn't prevent what I was trying to prevent. It's not constantly distressing by any means...just when I get an interaction incorrect.
I have been trialing an SSRI for the past several months now. I can't tell if it has at all affected me or I am just on a less externally stressful streak. I am inclined to believe the latter is the case, but idk.
I’m not a psychologist so I can’t tell you anything definitive, but getting very upset over something unexpected happening could be anxiety related. Everyone naturally gets frustrated when things don’t work out, but a lot of mental illnesses are just ‘normal’ things dialed up to 10.
It could also be a lot of stuff other than anxiety! Mental health is super complicated, regardless of what it is (if anything).
Are you in therapy with someone you trust in addition to meds? Because meds helped me a lot, but the therapy was super necessary for me as well.
No, I'm not in therapy. I've tried it on and off before and not really found it useful. Because either the therapist was just interested in chatting and not giving any sort of useful feedback OR they focus on minor, but easily identifiable issues that aren't necessarily why I was seeking out therapy.
I think for me, it just doesn't really work because I don't have one specific, obvious issue. I've known people who have been helped by therapy, but they had one very specific, glaring, obvious problem. One person I know was having near daily panic attacks. Another person I know was assaulted. Another person I know was having hallucinations. So these are all readily identifiable, singular, obvious issues.
I don't have anything like that and often don't even know what to say or what to bring up. It understandably makes it difficult for therapists to figure out what to do, and makes the whole thing just not overly beneficial.