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Person born in the late 70's here
Although birth of social media took a gigant shit on peoples general mindset and world feels more divided, right wing and missing "street level" empathy, world is still better.
For example in the 80's autistic people were just mentally retarded, dyslexic people were just stupid, bullying in schools was normal behaviour and part of being young, violence among teenagers was more commonplace, attitude that animals were just biological machines with instinctual reactions and just appearance of some cognition was more commonplace. 80's yuppie culture made it fashionable to be a wealthy asshole.
In the 90's home computers became common. Recession had bankrupted many high rolling yuppies. Nerds were no longer beaten for knowing how tech works. Gamer culture was no longer niche phenomenon. Cold war was over and nuclear armageddon was distant thing. Youth culture still had this doom and gloom attitude. Everyone was a flannel wearing tortured skater boy/girl. 90's was the "tomboy era", where girls were allowed to dress and act like boys without being socially ostracised. More attention was focused on mental health and colorful spectrum of human mind.
Late 90s and early 00 internet really started rolling, smarphones started to appear, social media was born. World became very small and everyone who wanted was a content creator. Suddenly large portion of population communicated with people outside their country on a daily basis.
This was the best time in the Internet. Search engines started to actually work and new webpages were sometimes an actual joy. Algorithms weren't corrupting things and polarizing everything. Autogenerated content was yet to come. Internet and social media was infused as essential part of our lives.
2010's the enshittification started and commercialization was on full gear. 2020 has become the era of stupid. AI, autogenerated content, polarization and dead internet.
But even with all this, I still think it's now better for the average person than the cold war paranoia world of the 70-80's.
We are however on a downward spiral and I'm hoping for a counter reaction in coming decades. Hoping that ignorances of past world are just making noise and attracting attention before they vanish for good.
I've been watching BBC Archive footage from the 80s recently:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6yfE9Ihr8F0
Everyone has the exact same fears as they do now: Russian interference, outcompeted by China, being a US lapdog, the price of housing, education standards, rich/poor divide.
All the exact same talking points we have today. We havent changed that much in 50 years just different gadgets.
(Though the absolute rich/ absolute poor divide is a lot bigger
Better gadgets and more inclusion for minorities and LGBTQ+ people. But plenty of incredibly vocal people that act like those rights are fascism, oh and numerous other rights are at risk.
Its a lot of better, and we've come a long way. But we've also come nowhere.
Coming from the 70's (US) as well the thing is things were generally getting better. The trend was upward although I would say economically that sorta ended in 2000 while technologically it was more around 20teens (excepting open source). The thing about politically, especially with freedom and rights, its been sorta back and forth but again felt more two steps forward one back pre 2k and one forward two back afterwards. Its starting to feel all back and no forward this year.
This was immensely interesting and helpful, thank you. I'm a millennial and reading your perspective is huge to me. I wish more things like this were shared openly, honestly, with an analytical perspective, from more people.
Thank you. This made my day.
You probably noticed that I ran out of time after 00's
I mean, 10s and 20s were short, but I figured that was because they are most recent and don't need to be talked about as much. Is that not why?
True, but how the world actually changed due to arrival of the world wide web and it's commercialisation became apparent in those years.
And I do have to admit that I have slight skew of perspective.
It's in the age of 25-30, when your career takes off and your children are born, your world kinda freezes. Mentally you see yourself as 30 years old till you're well over 50. Your memories kinda clump together and time runs faster and faster. Song that's playing on the throwback show feels like it was released last year.
Not sure if your brain clocks your memories in relation to life lived.
Realities of old age and appearance of new generation finally makes you wake up. You have arrived to your midlife crisis. This is what people older than me tell me. I'm still not 50, although first grandchildren are probably not far off.
The thing is that your world view also freezes. I notice that I'm still dragging along somewhere in the early 2010s
The Matrix was built to resemble the late 90s-00, "the pinnacle of civilization"
Oh shit.
Are you American? I'd really like to know.
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