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Great comment, and I'll add that police, by the nature of their jobs, have to deal with a lot of things that people would (and should) find traumatic: grisly accidents, homicides, overdoses, etc. Obviously, EMTs have to deal with that kind of thing, too, but at least they usually have a partner they can talk to. Despite TV always doing the buddy cop thing, cops usually work alone.
Everyone knows it's a problem, but the main solution has been absolutely shoveling money at grifters like Dave Grossman to give seminars and write books on "killology" (wish I was making that up). The guy's highest level of schooling is a masters in education in counseling, but he disguises that to try to make you think he's a proper psychologist or psychiatrist. Once you know his hypotheses, which are pulled out of thin air and unsupported by data, you see them absolutely everywhere steeped into the culture of cops and military in the US.
Absolutely, the fact that every time you interact with a person it could be on the worst day of their lives, but for you it's just Tuesday is a massive contributor to mental health issues. Being unable to talk about it makes things much worse, and while the ethos like 'killology' and similar might cops less traumatized by their jobs it is definitely for the worse.
The amount of othering I hear from cops who talk about the people they interact with in their jobs... Well let's just say I've never heard a cop talk about their job and go "boy am I glad that person is on the force", and it definitely seems like at least partly a coping mechanism.