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[–] flying_sheep@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You think?

I think people feel liberated to say they're gay these days, so there are much more people claiming to be gay than in previous decades. On the other hand, there's still a lot of homophobes and also quite some biphobes around, so there's probably a lot of bi people that present as hetero or even gay.

I'd assume that most people are at least a little bi, and that they'll try that out in high school even if they later decide they won't pursue it.

[–] Revonult@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

He is not saying anything about it being weird there are gay or bisexual relationships. Just that every instance of a homosexual relationship is also bisexual.

Like its interesting there are no purely homosexual relationships as you would expect from an accurate sampling

[–] flying_sheep@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You misunderstood:

  • I didn't imply that he is homophobic or biphobic
  • I think it's possible that this is a more accurate sampling, as I think that bi people are underrepresented in common statistics.
[–] Schmoo@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's why this was interesting to me. I myself am bi and that has not been my experience. Most gay men I encounter are fully gay, and I've only ever met 2 other bi people in my life.

[–] flying_sheep@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Are they fully gay, or did they embrace the acceptance of a biphobic culture by leaning into their gay side?

I'm not devaluing their choices, I'm just saying that people sometimes shut doors out of choice, not because there's no world in which they'd take them.