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[–] Severian@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago (3 children)

My wife and I had a baby a few weeks ago, so we'll hopefully be figuring out our first mother's day while taking care of a newborn. Hoping to get us all out of the house for a bit if the weather is nice enough.

[–] Servais@dormi.zone 5 points 9 months ago

Congratulations!

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Congratulations!

[–] orangeNgreen@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Congrats! There’s a bunch of dad-based communities on Lemmy. None are as active as this community, unfortunately, but definitely join some of them and reach out if you need any advice from other dads!

Edit:

!dadworld@lemmy.world

!daddit@kbin.social

!dads@feddit.uk

!dadsonly@lemmy.world

!dadsplain@lemmy.ca

!dadvice@lemmy.world

[–] Servais@dormi.zone 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Maybe some potential consolidation to discuss here?

[–] orangeNgreen@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I think I even suggested that awhile back on one of those communities. It might be worth me reaching out to each of the mods to try and coordinate that.

[–] Blaze@reddthat.com 2 points 9 months ago

I posted on !dadworld@lemmy.world: https://reddthat.com/post/18791125

Quoting the post here as sometimes mod remove meta posts

Hello everyone,

Randomly stumbled upon @orangeNgreen@lemmy.world's comment in another thread about the different dad communities:

!dadworld@lemmy.world: last post 10 days ago, previous one 1 month ago

!daddit@kbin.social: last post 2 weeks ago

!dads@feddit.uk: last post 2 days ago, previous one 8 days ago

!dadsonly@lemmy.world: last post 2 months ago

!dadsplain@lemmy.ca: last post 4 days ago, previous one 2 months ago

!dadvice@lemmy.world: last post 2 months ago

!fatherverse@midwest.social: last post 5 days ago, previous one 2 months ago

So I guess there are some conversations ongoing, but they are scattered all over the place.

Should we maybe discuss a potential consolidation?