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Discord was already succumbing to enshitification. Now with their intention to be owned by Wall Street, that trajectory will certainly accelerate at warp speed once the change of hands happens.

Anyone already get ahead of this and find a solid alternative?

Right now I'm on the fence between Element for Matrix, and Revolt. Both seem to have their pros and cons and I can't find a clear "winner".

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[–] Turnbomb@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Is there any option to stay on discord but better? Like vencord or something similar through Linux? I cannot imagine being able to get my friends off of discord ever.

[–] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 3 points 1 hour ago
[–] OccultIconoclast@reddthat.com 1 points 1 hour ago
[–] Rhaxapopouetl@ttrpg.network 0 points 1 hour ago

Alternatives to discord, open source or not:

https://alternativeto.net/software/discord-app/

[–] psycho_driver@lemmy.world 7 points 4 hours ago

If you just need voice comms and basic chat mumble/murmur has worked great for me for ages.

[–] XiberKernel@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (3 children)

Honest question, but on a technical level isn’t discord basically IRC with some bells, whistles, emojis, and a some WebRTC Logic wrapped in electron with a large marketing budget? Throw in some cloud storage and a CDN for images. What am I missing? I’m not saying it’s “easy”, but I’m curious what it would take to build a solid streamlined FOSS alternative built on combining existing technologies.

Edit: I’m not familiar with the ecosystem… is the issue with existing FOSS bad UI and complicated onboarding? Missing features? Or is it simply a critical mass issue?

[–] echolalia@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 hour ago

In addition to the replies you got already, discord has screen sharing/streaming. An experience kind of like zoom (I don't use it and dont see the appeal but maybe someone who does can elaborate more. My partner uses this feature sometimes).

[–] dubyakay@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 hours ago

Discord is not even necessarily Electron. I'm running it as Datcord, which is a Firefox based wrapper.

Discord has a searchble chat history, which is what sets it apart from IRC. Everything else can be emulated by modern IRC clients, such as emoji and embedded / unfurling images and link previews.

However imagine the chat history as if you had a bouncer that has 100% uptime and joined all possible chat channels from their creation, along with offering you search and buffer.

If not IRC, either Matrix or XMPP should be capable of this.

I'm fairly sure Discord's popularity was due to aggressive marketing, likely during their venture capital funding rounds. Something which FOSS does not have.

[–] Phantom_Engineer@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 hours ago

The main benefit I remember from jumping to Discord from IRC back in the day was the ability to easily see past messages. That said, I'm not sure if that's a problem anymore on IRC since I haven't used it in ages. Even then, I don't think it would be too terribly difficult to whip up a self-hostable fediverse competitor to Discord. It would essentially be IRC++.

It's probably more of a critical mass issue, though not near the level of Reddit vs Lemmy or Twitter vs Bluesky vs Mastodon. Every Discord server is essentially a walled garden. A Discord server doesn't hold much advantage over a Slack server, GroupMe, Teams, or IRC. For that reason, it would be a lot easier to move individual communities over.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 10 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Avoid Revolt as there moderation is questionable

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Wym moderation? Aren't you moderating your own server?

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

There is a single instance everyone is on

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Ah ok, yeah in that case yes. Only solution to this would be federation. But matrix is nowhere there yet in terms of normie usability.

[–] Kuvwert@lemm.ee 75 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Ah this is so exciting!

Discord 'existing' has held back development motivation on Foss Federated Communication alternatives.

When they go public only good things will happen for projects like matrix :)

I'm very excited!

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 11 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Matrix is cool but it really suffers from complexity.

The spec is a mess because they keep expanding it.

[–] douglasg14b@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Let's not mention the abysmal performance for servers. Making it largely infeasible to scale.

It's not the solution, not even remotely close, unfortunately.

[–] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I feel like matrix isn't a one-to-one replacement. It's a good slack replacement.

I haven't used matrix enough to know for sure but does it have the discord equivalent of servers?

[–] WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 hours ago

those are called spaces there. but there's no flexible roles system. also no hop-on voice channels yet, but that's a client feature so maybe that's a bit different

[–] communist@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Element/matrix all the way

if you want something that looks like discord there are themes for the clients, there's even commet.chat for a discord like experience (but they haven't added calls yet)

[–] TheSambassador@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Calls and easily sharing my screen are 90% of my use cases for Discord. The entire appeal of it initially was that it was a more functional Ventrilo with both text and voice channels. Hopefully something FOSS gets further developed by the time Discord completely shits the bed.

[–] communist@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Then i'd recommend the element client in particular.

https://github.com/aaronraimist/element-themes/tree/master/Discord

^^ there's also this!

[–] pory@lemmy.world 90 points 12 hours ago (12 children)

it's Element/Matrix if we're lucky. Revolt is just another Discord - surely this single company will last! With Element/Matrix being an open protocol, it won't be a "platform" you have to leave when it goes corporate.

[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Nheko provides an interface that is reminiscent of Discord. Fully featured and fast Matrix client.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 hours ago

Thank you for the recommendation. I tried element a while ago and found it lacking. Matrix must be the way forward. Disregarding IRC of course.

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