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Discord was already succumbing to enshitification. Now with their intention to be owned by Wall Street, that trajectory will certainly accelerate at warp speed once the change of hands happens.

Anyone already get ahead of this and find a solid alternative?

Right now I'm on the fence between Element for Matrix, and Revolt. Both seem to have their pros and cons and I can't find a clear "winner".

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[–] DaveX64@lemmy.ca 10 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I've been tinkering with old BBS software :)

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[–] yessikg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Somebody needs to create an XMPP/Jitsi hybrid

[–] poVoq@slrpnk.net 7 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Jitsi-meet is already using xmpp under the hood.

But there are some efforts to add multi-user video calls to full xmpp clients as well. Dino can already do it for a while, and Movim and Libervia recently added experimental support.

Its not quite a full Discord replacement, but for private groups it works quite well.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Isn't the video the jingle part that Google added to jabber originally (before it dumped everything to remake it from the group up about 4 more times like a GSoC crossed over with groundhogDay)?

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[–] BroBot9000@lemmy.world 8 points 18 hours ago (9 children)

Why use Element for matrix?

From what I can tell it collets and links data to you: Location, identifiers and contact information.

How is that private or better than Signal?

[–] doodledup@lemmy.world 11 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I use Signal for private and personal messages. I use Discord solely for gaming and voicechat. A good alternative doesn't need to be overly private (although that would be a bonus of course). It just needs to have a good UI and feature parity with Discord.

[–] BroBot9000@lemmy.world 6 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

There is a difference between willing information that you put out there and data gathering that goes on without your consent.

Location data is something I don’t want anyone collecting without my consent.

Why does Element need to know where I’m located? Why is that being gathered with my identifiers?

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[–] tofu@lemmy.nocturnal.garden 4 points 14 hours ago

Does it? On Android, it never asked me to grant location permission unless I try to share my location to another user. Similar with contacts and calendar, it's working perfectly fine without them. Where exactly does it link those identifiers and with what?

[–] Link@rentadrunk.org 4 points 18 hours ago

Isn’t the data sharing optional? I’m pretty sure it asks you on first startup and you can decline.

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[–] merthyr1831@lemmy.ml 4 points 16 hours ago

rocketchat seems decent

[–] Xanza@lemm.ee 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

This would be the perfect time for someone to throw up a nice UI for a webrtc based voice chat platform in the browser. Nothing to install, no crazy permission/server setup. Just create a room and invite your friends. Boom, team based voice chat.

[–] poVoq@slrpnk.net 8 points 16 hours ago

Jitsi-meet does that. Easy to install as well.

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