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[–] Leorhall@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I’m not banned, but prefer Lemmy more, or at least the idea of it. I come here first, browse around the communities I’m subscribed to, and then shift over to Reddit to browse again. Unfortunately, I’m still seeing more interesting things to me over there, people gushing over Alan Wake, talking up the war in Helldivers, chatting about ways to buy things locally instead of American, etc, the topics I’m interested in.

I do find that things keep getting more interesting here, more discussions I’m keen on seem to be surfacing, and I take that as a good sign.

[–] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 months ago

Left on the API troubles went back once or twice for warframe and other small comunities but been liking here much better. I engage with people in here. It doesn't feel like screaming into the void.

[–] Zoboomafoo@slrpnk.net 3 points 3 months ago

I'm still using both, but I'm sure with the changes in administration I'll be getting banned soon. I already got a warning for saying that self-declared kings are liable to self-declared regicide

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 months ago

I never really used Reddit, but I read an article during the API debacle in 2023 that mentioned Lemmy so I gave it a shot.

[–] silentjohn@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 months ago

I've had accounts shadow banned due to VPN. I've had more accounts banned from subs due to annoying mods. I'm still on reddit, but I really do prefer the non-corporate/non-VC-backed social media

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I just like lemmy more. I still visit reddit irregularly, like every few days.

[–] PortoPeople@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago
[–] dumbass@leminal.space 3 points 3 months ago

Lemmy is my best friend now.

[–] cyphear@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

After spending some time on Lemmy, I have a feeling that if I were to say anything is get banned. I made a meme of that screaming seagull saying, "Luigi!!!" That I want to post from my main. I just can't bring myself to go back. It seems pointless.

[–] innocentpixels@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I just use both. I don't like what Reddit as a company is doing, but they have a larger amount of content

[–] Stern@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Got permabanned. I was one of the last protestors from the API stuff standing.

[–] swampwitch@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I just switched when the API nonsense shat all over the actually good reddit apps, since I primarily used reddit on my phone.

I saw lemmy touted as an alternative and figured why not?

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 3 points 3 months ago

I was never banned on Reddit (did get the boot from like 3 subs but that was in 10 years of redditing) β€” but I manually purged my account when I left.

[–] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 months ago

I like lemmy more.

both of my accounts are still up, i just like Lemmy more

[–] DimFisher@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I have already saved subreddits I liked on bookmarks, but after so many suspensions and bans for literally stupid reasons I had enough of this cesspool which is reddit and surprisingly I feel a lot better, I think reddit takes way more than it gives to anyone, I use lemmy moderately and that's the way things should be with anything, not sure I will ever get back on reddit again

[–] trilobyte81@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

They gave me a tempory ban for bull crap so i deleted my 10+ year old account and moved here

[–] RabbitMix@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago

just left and haven't looked back, I'm not using the stupid default reddit app

[–] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Both. I was banned for using a slur. I was quoting a movie in a post about that movie (Glengarry Glenross). It was in quotation marks and everything.

I made a new account and was banned a month later for being racist. It was on a video of a train and I said something like 'why did I feel when that started like some Indian guy was going to die foolishly?'

Racist, apparently.

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[–] L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

No and not really. Reddit is just past its expiration date. I believe Lemmy suffers from a lot of the same systemic issues and that will prevent it from becoming an actual long term solution. It's just the alpha version. It's better than the prototype, but it's still built on the same fundamentals and will likely suffer a similar type of failure.

[–] Snowstorm@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Can you develop that idea?

[–] L0rdMathias@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It is ultimately the same format which does not yield constructive conversation. The conversation is as though OP were speaking on a stage making their statement/announcement and then the audience yells back to them. It functions for some things, most notably sharing popular news - not necessarily journalism, just a glimpse through the eyes of the zeitgeist; dank memes are a form of good news by this definition. It does not function for discussion oriented conversation, since most people don't read the whole thread. The implementation of up and down votes manipulate conversational integrity in weird ways Though that will occur with any type of rating system, I believe the simplicity of the reddit style system yields conversational benefits that are less valuable than how cheap it is to implement. A cheap hack of a system will yield a cheap shoddy output. This leads me to believe a better method exists, we just haven't found it yet.

The emphasis on user control and instance freedom is novel and appreciated, but it has come with a reckless disregard for the dangers of the nowadays well understood echo chamber effect of current social media. There are zero safeguards to prevent Lemmy from shattering itself under any amount of external stress or internal corruption. Organized attacks are a major threat, and there is a nonzero chance of that happening.

Again, all of these are just like long term weaknesses in the structure itself. It doesn't mean it IS going to fail, it doesn't mean things can't be mitigated, I just don't trust that it will stand for a very long time nor will it reach the significance of reddit. Could be wrong, but it looks like Lemmy is capable only of moving around the problems with Reddit instead of being able to actively quell them.

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I like lemmy more, but it doesn't have as much daily content, so I use both.

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 months ago

Lemmy is 99% of what Reddit used to be for me. I still use Reddit for niche stuff, but it’s a solid replacement - especially since Reddit decided we had to use their substandard interface.

[–] thefartographer@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago

Fuck Reddit. Does that answer help?

[–] comfy@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 months ago

Wasn't banned, just abandoned my account around 8 years ago.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago
[–] cabron_offsets@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

I have no idea how many times I was permabanned. But what turned me to Lemmy was that cuntrag Spez taking away my Apollo.

[–] RyanDownyJr@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

The 3rd party app change didn't sit well with me. Ended up stop using reddit on my phone entirely since native was horrible. Ended up coming here when the crackdown on "Luigi" was happening and other censorship that was questionable AF. The amount of content here obviously isn't comparable to reddit, yet, but it's enough to digest throughout the day on work poop breaks and whatnot. :)

[–] parmesan@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

Both, I'm sure I could make a new account if I wanted but I don't want to contribute to their dumpster fire of a website anymore anyway

[–] selkiesidhe@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago

Perma banned. Definitely Perma banned.

Funny how I went what thirteen years or something, being the same cranky old progressive I've always been yet the MOMENT the orange cancer takes office again and reddit kowtows to muskrat, I get permanently banned.

Karma like no tomorrow so apparently a lot of people agreed with me.

[–] BabyVi@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

I still have a functional reddit account. But I only use it to view old posts these days as there's still a lot of useful info on reddit.

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