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transcriptA picture of the Ben Affleck Smoking meme, with the caption "Me seeing people on reddit telling other people to go to lemmy.world"

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[–] BrutallyHonestPOS@lemm.ee 16 points 8 hours ago

lemmy.world does not allow the use of vpn to post. vpn is basic internet hygiene. do not go to lemmy.world if you care about that, our you will not be able to post.

you can join any federated instance instead.

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 13 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

What do you want them to do? Select an instance at random, to spread them out?

[–] Comment105@lemm.ee 14 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (2 children)

Yeah, this is just stupid. I wish a significant amount of redditors would go to lemmy.world

I mean, what do you want to tell them to join? Something called "mander.xyz"? "sopuli.xyz"? Maybe something like sh.itjust.works, jlai.lu or yall.theatl.social? I'd feel awkward enough telling them to join "Lemmy" then linking to lemm.ee. Sending them to lemmy.ml would just be cruel.

[–] LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I picked lemmy.world because it sounded the least sus

[–] 3dmvr@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago

lemm.ee wasnt off to me but yeah lemmyworld seemed like the better just because it had lemmy in the name lmao, lemmy.ca maybe

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 9 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I registered with blahaj first but I couldn't. Log in after a couple of months and never found a solution.

I came to Lemmy on my own but felt forced I to .World.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 hours ago

There are other generalist or niche instances beyond .world

[–] JayGray91@lemmy.zip 19 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Can we recommend another generic instance? .world has a few problems plaguing it right now.

[–] JayGray91@lemmy.zip 4 points 6 hours ago

You're on one of them already, IMO

The other one I have in mind is mine. Lemmy.zip even DM a starter guide after sign up.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

As long as they have more than two brain cells to click together. If they can't get past the tiny technical barrier to entry then they can go somewhere else.

[–] Comment105@lemm.ee 6 points 9 hours ago

What you're saying is "reddit is fine, it can stay the front page of the internet, I don't mind"

[–] Hazelnutcookiez@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 14 hours ago

a generic instance is what most users need to actually make the move, if they like it or understand it better later they might choose a different insurance later, if not who cares they can still interact with others.

[–] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 60 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

The cold truth is that to onboard people in greater numbers you need a default instance recommendation. You just do. You absolutely cannot ask potential new users (many of which will - hopefully - be casual and not so tech savvy) to sit down and undertake a multi hour research project into finding an appropriate small instance for them. You cannot reasonably expect people to look into uptime, funding and defederation lists to make an informed decision about where to register. You just need them through the door and posting and commenting and voting.

Making a new account somewhere else is super easy and painless once they're already here. We just need to get them here.

Just tell them to go to your favourite instance. Easy.

[–] Sunshine@lemmy.ca 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Lemm.ee is the default instance new users should use.

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 1 points 13 hours ago

That would expose new users to Hexbear, and I don't think new users would stay long after accidentally provoking them with wrongthink and getting spammed with pig testicle pics and insults. That was my experience when I first joined Lemmy and it wasn't pleasant. Lemm.ee's hands-off approach to defederation can be both a blessing and a curse, and I'm not sure it'd be best for new users to be exposed to some of the worst of Lemmy.

[–] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 6 points 20 hours ago (6 children)

It's too bad there isn't a way to just have one location for everyone to create an account, like a lemmy.com, and then the last step during account creationg is to select your preferred instance for the account, maybe from like a drop down list that has a small blurb about the rules and expectations for that instance and a list of top 10 hosted communities, and maybe even a random choice option, and then you can go back to that main area to switch your instance later if need be.

[–] dev_null@lemmy.ml 10 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

When I first found Lemmy, it was through https://join-lemmy.org/ which is similar to what you are describing.

Though it recommended me to join lemmy.ml, and apparently it's a controversial one, so I don't know if that worked out well...

[–] meep_launcher@lemm.ee 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

That's how I got in! Lemm.ee does just fine.

But yea, perhaps we could chat to the heads of lemmy.world to maybe pin an announcement to help other instances and help decentralisation. I wouldn't be surprised if they would agree to do that for the greater good.

[–] 3dmvr@lemm.ee 2 points 2 hours ago

I think historical data supports they wouldnt agree to stuff for the greater good, but idr that well so I could be wrong

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[–] Sheldan@lemmy.world 28 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (2 children)

I don't see the issue with recommending a generic instance, if your intend is to convert the generic user. It certainly is a better experience than saying 'ok, so choose what you like from this list of instances' and they don't even know the implications or what that means.

The overcomplication of Lemmy is an issue, and this behavior tries to avoid that.

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[–] drkt_@lemmy.dbzer0.com 173 points 1 day ago (22 children)

Stop making good the enemy of perfect!

[–] DahGangalang@infosec.pub 65 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Yeah, anything to get them from reddit is good.

Plus, once they get a feel for Lemmy and the wider fediverse, they can then migrate their account elsewhere.

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[–] demesisx@infosec.pub 15 points 22 hours ago (3 children)

Makes sense.

Lemmy.world is filled with censorship and genocide apologists. It’s basically an exact clone of Reddit’s culture of smug libs that look down their noses at other poor people while working tirelessly against their own best interest by supporting corrupt oligarchs that weaponize identity politics as a highly effective dog whistle.

[–] Auntievenim@lemmy.world 13 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Hey! I'll have you know I was onboarded from reddit because I can't possibly be asked to understand federation much less the preferred instance or any of the politics of this place before arriving. I saw an easy way in and I took it, because my anti-genocide tirades got me banned from reddit and so far haven't from here. Idk how to control which part of lemmy I'm in much less the one I come from. I am not, however, a "lemmy.world-er" I just live here

[–] demesisx@infosec.pub 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Welcome!

Now that the election is over and the shitlibs on world can pretend that Trump is the only demagogue to blame for the ongoing genocide, you might be fine.

If I were you, I’d switch before you share your opinion somewhere that kescusay@lemmy.world or jordanlund@lemmy.world can censor or even ban you.

I’ve seen people banned and their comments removed for having the audacity to question the official braindead Reddit hivemind lib narrative (pro-DNC no matter how demonstrably corrupt they get because “have you seen the other guys?”, anti-Single-Payer, conveniently pro-Ukraine while hypocritically anti-Palestine).

It’s pretty easy to switch nowadays.

[–] Auntievenim@lemmy.world 4 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

One day when I have the patience to figure out migrating my profile I will lol a ban would iust give me the time to do so

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago

Migrating a profile right now is really just downloading your settings and subscriptions (option in settings), opening a new account on a different instance, and importing your settings and subscriptions.

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

There is no migrating, you just open a new account. I used to be on .world and changing really didn't do anything noticeable past letting me temporarily block .world when they're on a crusade against some imaginary issue.

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[–] longjohnjohnson@lemmy.ml 35 points 1 day ago (17 children)

A lot of people start off on a major instance, then after finding and vibing with another instance, can move to that.

There's tons of tools and things that allow for transfer of subscriptions and everything else so changing instances isn't a big deal.

The important thing is to get them on Lemmy first.

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[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 9 points 21 hours ago

It's literally just the Lemmy arm of Reddit. Same rules, same mods, same centrist users.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 10 points 22 hours ago

Part of the problem is that there isn't a really good onboarding process that doesn't involve getting people to join smaller instances.

Based on dev comments, they seem happy with Lemmy staying small, so there isn't an organization pushing for an equal distribution of new members.

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