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I used to have a playlist made but I accidentally deleted it while clearing out random playlists. I'm trying to remake it right now and the only song I was able to remember for sure was "closer" by nine in nails. I swear if one of you says cbat...

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[–] Walican132@lemmy.today 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Cbat feels like it should always be mentioned when this question is asked.

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I know I was just trying to avoid every other answer ending up as cbat lol

[–] Walican132@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago

That’s fine. I was just happy to have an excuse to remember it.

That said I don’t even think closer is the sexiest/dirtiest NIN song let alone from the downward spiral. Big man with a gun is just wild.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 13 points 3 months ago (2 children)

This made me realize I have never had sex with anything on... No TV, no movies, not even music.

Is that weird?

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 months ago

Weird? No. A little uncommon? Maybe.

I think for most people it helps them be fully engaged in the act at hand. The noise might cover up some of the more disruptive sounds that can occur (not that they are a problem but they can take people out of the flow) during the act.

[–] toofpic@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

No, because you would be distracted by switching to the next track if something "wrong" plays.
Special playlists are not always helping, because another person might have a different idea of what is sexy.

[–] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 7 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Baby Got Back by Sir Mixalot

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[–] GenosseFlosse@feddit.org 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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[–] gnomesaiyan@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I just load up a no-ad fireplace on YouTube.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 7 points 3 months ago

no-ad fireplace

These are the kind of phrases that would confuse the hell out of young me.

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[–] m_f@discuss.online 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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[–] dumbass@leminal.space 3 points 3 months ago (2 children)
[–] froh42@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

What what, you can last over four minutes?

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Well yeah with the foreplay and apologizing afterwards, gets just over one loop.

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[–] MissGutsy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I recently found a playlist on Spotify called "Sexy Goth Slut Music" which I really like. I made my own playlist from my favorite songs, which also includes closer by nin

[–] tal@lemmy.today 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

playlist on Spotify called “Sexy Goth Slut Music”

kagis

I believe that this is it.

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2xAwGsI7gY5OVRtZaToznQ

[–] MissGutsy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yes, that's the one

Also what does kagis mean...

[–] tal@lemmy.today 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Just searching for it with Kagi, a la "googles" on Google.

[–] MissGutsy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago

Ah, that makes sense

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

From the Water by Toadies is a great bang-track.

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

This is an interesting track. This feels more like having sex on a dirtbike while doing 50 in the backwoods kind of track. Less the sensual loving in a bedroom kinda track haha.

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[–] Toes@ani.social 2 points 3 months ago

Big fan of this playlist and similar.

YouTube weeb playlist

[–] swordgeek@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I've got a playlist for that. Two that come to mind are Gliry Box and Fade Into You.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] swordgeek@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 months ago

Yep. Fat fingers typing on a phone while on a bus on the highway = one more typo than I caught. :-)

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 months ago

I have very fond memories of listening to fade into you with my mom when I was little so I think that one is gonna stay off this playlist haha. But I appreciate the comment. I'll check out that other song.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Electronic stuff like Tipper or Thriftworks is excellent.

[–] datavoid@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I'll have to check them out. Thanks.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Tipper’s “Broken Soul Jamboree” and Thriftworks’ “Fader” are the two main albums on our fucklist!

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You don't by chance happen to frequently consume mushrooms by any chance do you?

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago

Bahahaha I used to trip all the time. I’m old now and have chilled out, but my partner and I will still roll face a couple times a year and get all weeeeeird with it.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I just looked him up and Thriftworks has some albums I’ve never heard. “Quantico Jack” has immediately been added to my list. It’s perfect. I love slow, deep, organic, raw sounding stuff.

[–] HC4L@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

The soundtrack from Conan the Barbarian is a recommendation!

[–] hemko@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago (3 children)
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[–] mugthol@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 months ago

The band TENDER has a lot of songs that fit the vibe

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Doja Cat is doing it for me though.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

She is also pretty smoking herself, ngl. And funny and down-to-earth.

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[–] umbraroze@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 months ago

First of all, it's only horizontal tango on very special occasions. Mamba, salsa, go-go, even jitterbug. But tango is special.

Secondly, music during sex is overrated I don't get why some people do it but whatever you do you I guess

[–] tal@lemmy.today 1 points 3 months ago

“closer” by nine in nails.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ccY25Cb3im0

Not the official music video, and has some background static, but all of the official content seems to be modified from the original song in some way, so...shrugs

[–] noname_yet2077@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I'm no dancer and so for the first time in my life I've ever heard about horizontal tango. Now I'm curious.

[–] noname_yet2077@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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