Cbat feels like it should always be mentioned when this question is asked.
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I know I was just trying to avoid every other answer ending up as cbat lol
That’s fine. I was just happy to have an excuse to remember it.
That said I don’t even think closer is the sexiest/dirtiest NIN song let alone from the downward spiral. Big man with a gun is just wild.
This made me realize I have never had sex with anything on... No TV, no movies, not even music.
Is that weird?
Weird? No. A little uncommon? Maybe.
I think for most people it helps them be fully engaged in the act at hand. The noise might cover up some of the more disruptive sounds that can occur (not that they are a problem but they can take people out of the flow) during the act.
No, because you would be distracted by switching to the next track if something "wrong" plays.
Special playlists are not always helping, because another person might have a different idea of what is sexy.
Baby Got Back by Sir Mixalot
You know I do love that song but I feel like that would really take both of us outta the mood if we are both singing along haha
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I just load up a no-ad fireplace on YouTube.
no-ad fireplace
These are the kind of phrases that would confuse the hell out of young me.
Not quite enough audio for my liking but I like it.
John Cage - 4' 44"
What what, you can last over four minutes?
Well yeah with the foreplay and apologizing afterwards, gets just over one loop.
Well that was an interesting test to make me check my phone's audio settings lol
This is fucking hilarious. Not quite the vibe I'm going for but I appreciate the submission haha
I recently found a playlist on Spotify called "Sexy Goth Slut Music" which I really like. I made my own playlist from my favorite songs, which also includes closer by nin
playlist on Spotify called “Sexy Goth Slut Music”
kagis
I believe that this is it.
Yes, that's the one
Also what does kagis mean...
Just searching for it with Kagi, a la "googles" on Google.
Ah, that makes sense
I'm no dancer and so for the first time in my life I've ever heard about horizontal tango. Now I'm curious.
Oh.. I... I got informed.
Hahaha. Sorry.
The band TENDER has a lot of songs that fit the vibe
well it depends on what you're into. literally any Hendrix album does the trick lol
First of all, it's only horizontal tango on very special occasions. Mamba, salsa, go-go, even jitterbug. But tango is special.
Secondly, music during sex is overrated I don't get why some people do it but whatever you do you I guess
From the Water by Toadies is a great bang-track.
This is an interesting track. This feels more like having sex on a dirtbike while doing 50 in the backwoods kind of track. Less the sensual loving in a bedroom kinda track haha.
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Electronic stuff like Tipper or Thriftworks is excellent.
Wish my wife liked to get as weird as I do!
Thank you for this! Sounds a lot like when we’d go see Tipper’s chill morning sets. I’ll definitely check out more of this!
I'll have to check them out. Thanks.
Tipper’s “Broken Soul Jamboree” and Thriftworks’ “Fader” are the two main albums on our fucklist!
Tipper’s “Broken Soul Jamboree”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iswAbtsIYNY&list=PLKgNiyb-2YgvAF8u_kjp6YJtyCEqT62-C
https://tipper.bandcamp.com/album/broken-soul-jamboree
Thriftworks’ “Fader”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Eo5hNZvMKQ&list=PLXahuvSsV8TCjb49mW1N2tOLALc-kvbRG
You don't by chance happen to frequently consume mushrooms by any chance do you?
Bahahaha I used to trip all the time. I’m old now and have chilled out, but my partner and I will still roll face a couple times a year and get all weeeeeird with it.
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I feel like this is my fault for not specifying I meant serious input only. Haha
Not gonna lie this the only song I remember listening during sex, mostly because we just had a good laugh about it
A song about STD tests would be kinda weird during sex. But if it works for you I am happy for ya haha
I've got a playlist for that. Two that come to mind are Gliry Box and Fade Into You.
I have very fond memories of listening to fade into you with my mom when I was little so I think that one is gonna stay off this playlist haha. But I appreciate the comment. I'll check out that other song.
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