Gourdlets.

I really like the Style Savvy games on Nintendo. I started late with the one on 3DS but planning to get the Switch one eventually. They're nice and comfy games and since it sounds like you may already have a Nintendo, could be an option.

Even as a guy, I love the new Hello Kitty game.

My significant other loves it even more. Lmao

Hello Kitty Island Adventure is similar to a very relaxed cross between Animal Crossing and Breath of the Wild. There are elements that depend on time passing in the real world such as socializing, holidays, and getting certain resources, and there are also a lot of very funny and cute storylines featuring all the Sanrio characters. You don't need to be initiated into them to have a nice time (I sure wasn't).

There's no combat, but there are many other systems and areas to unlock that make the game feel deeper than it originally looks.

It also has multiplayer, if that's something you'd use!

Coral island sounds right up your alley.

Tokimeki Memorial

If you like puzzles, and greenery instead of pink:

Botany Manor, which is fundamentally about the feminine urge to go alone into a giant manor and grow some cool flowers

Terra Nil, which is about going to a desolate planet and using the power of technology to grow some cool flowers

I've never played it but 'Pony Island' seems to have a pink color scheme and I'm guessing it's about ponies, so maybe?

Try Minami Lane. It's a soft and cozy very light management game. Short and sweet. No romance or pink though.

No Place Like Home?

Calico, maybe 🙂

I would suggest searching Steam for games.

I don’t be leave this is a pension but rather a bot collecting date.

For on the Girly Games that are Pink

And on the Mind Craft and Animalsers Cross.

No combat necessary.

While there are combat aspects of it, you can play the fuck out of Stardew valley without ever even seeing the cave. Definitely slice of life, with open relationship options(open as in mf, mm, ff, makes no difference. Not screwing everyone).

Transistor

I don't know if you'd consider visual novels a game, but even if the 'character' you're playing is a male, the feminine aspects come out really well in Doki Doki Literature Club.

Terraria