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I am aware of

  • Sea-lioning
  • Gaslighting
  • Gish-Galloping
  • Dogpiling

I want to know I theres any others I'm not aware of

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[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 33 minutes ago

Is there a word for dragging the argument to near-unrelated topics? E.g, post about lemmy.ml having comments on whether Ukraine has a nazi government.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

You forget the most common one of all, lying.

[–] 0x0@lemmy.zip 1 points 19 minutes ago

That's part gishgalloping part gaslighting, no?

[–] Quibblekrust@thelemmy.club 10 points 6 hours ago

"Thought-terminating clichés"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thought-terminating_clich%C3%A9

Also... I don't think it has a name, but dubiously claiming any of these examples in an argument. Maybe it'd just be called "deflection".

I've seen so many valid arguments shutdown as whataboutism, sealioning, concern trolling when they were valid arguments. It's just as much bullshit as actually doing any of those things.

[–] reactionality@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Appeal to fallacies is the self-important idiot's way out of replying to someone's argument.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argument_from_fallacy

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 13 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

The one I see the most is just playing dumb and pretending not to understand basic things

[–] inzen@lemm.ee 17 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

That may or may not be a technique.

[–] toddestan@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

Depending on what they are doing, it can be a form of sea-lioning.

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Sometimes they're genuinely dumb, but often it's obvious that they know, and they know you know.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 32 minutes ago

That would be sea-lioning.

[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 12 hours ago (3 children)

Fallacy accusations.

When someone does not want to argue about your points they will attack the way you used to made them. If you check hard enough you can find fallacies in most online conversations. So if someone wants they could easily accuse anyone of making this or that fallacy. Some of them being also kind of subjective. Was this a valid example or was it a strawman?

They would just change the debate subject and put you on the defensive defending yourself of making fallacies.

I just usually point out this attitude and end the debate when this happens.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 2 points 31 minutes ago (1 children)

Is there a fallacy fallacy? where people assume that because something has a fallacy its wrong, or they accuse something of having a non-existant fallacy?

[–] 0x0@lemmy.zip 1 points 16 minutes ago

There are a few phallic fallacies for sure.

[–] whereisk@lemmy.world 6 points 8 hours ago

A fallacy matters if it’s central to proving the argument, otherwise it probably doesn’t. Eg Bringing up an anecdote, or a subjective experience as a way of illustrating a point could be said to be fallacious, but is not, if the argument is well supported enough that would stand without it.

I just had an argument where I ended my point with the words “this is a pure could have been:” and added a very likely scenario that may well could have come to pass it some events were different. Obviously it was speculation and not central to the previous argument, but in my estimation likely.

Then other person instead of responding to actual points took the last part and accused me of should’a, would’a, could’a.

Dude, yes! But not the point, also I was the one that pointed it out. The type of person that would explain to a comedian their own joke.

[–] Robust_Mirror@aussie.zone 11 points 11 hours ago

Man that's such a strawman, you're completely misrepresenting why they bring up fallacies.

[–] optimistic@lemm.ee 6 points 11 hours ago

It's bad food. I get into bad hungry defensive moods with bad food.

[–] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Someone started talking about my hair in the profile picture on a discussion on another site because they didn't agree with what I said.

When people do shit like this I just disengage. Life is too short to waste with bad faith arguments.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 2 points 31 minutes ago

Ad-Hominen attack, I think its called.

[–] AnalogNotDigital@lemmy.wtf 15 points 16 hours ago (23 children)

I'll give you a huge one.

Purity tests (when cosplaying as liberals). If a person isn't super-duper liberal on every single issue then you can't support them.

There's tons of this on this very site. People who will tell you they'll stay home and not vote for someone, if they only support 80% of what they seemingly want. People see this, then emulate said behavior.

Somehow, liberals would rather get 0% of what they want instead of 50% because of the missed 30% that the candidate doesn't support.

[–] kreskin@lemmy.world 2 points 45 minutes ago* (last edited 31 minutes ago)

genocide is not something you negotiate away. Some things arent for sale. If you choose to whore for those sweet sweet zionist paychecks, thats on you. Dont project that vileness on others.

Was this supposed to be a demonstration of projection? If so, well done.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

I agree 100% with the purity test thing, but "liberal" ≠ leftist. That's not a purity thing, it's a "words have specific definitions" thing.

I know idiot tankies say this, and I know they are annoying when they constantly use "liberal" as an insult... But it is technically correct that they are two distinct ideologies (with some overlap).

[–] AnalogNotDigital@lemmy.wtf 2 points 4 hours ago

Sure. My point stands. A leftist will get 30-50% of what they want with a Democrat in office compared to 0% of what they want.

A toddler can work out it's better that you get a small portion of what you want, instead of nothing. It's really that simple.

[–] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 9 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Politicians you don't like can make good policies and politicians you do like can make bad policies. Parties are not football teams for you to take blind sides and politicians are not celebrities to be veneered blindly. They are public servants, nothing more.

It's a global phenomenon, but Americans are particularly affect by the false dichotomy fallacy of having the two sides of political spectrum represented when, in reality, they just have two flavors of right to choose from. Both are shit in their own way.

People love to turn off their brains and follow the leadership. That's what makes us easily manipulable. It's not because someone aligns politically with you that they are working with your best interest in mind.

Sorry for the random rambling.

[–] AnalogNotDigital@lemmy.wtf 0 points 4 hours ago

Yeah, and you'd think that even leftists would agree that having the people in charge that want cheaper college, and cheaper medicine/healthcare would be the better option, even if (from their lens) they are a right wing party.

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[–] theparadox@lemmy.world 17 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

There is a series "The Alt Right Playbook" that covers a lot of bad faith and manipulative tactics, many of which are used online.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 13 points 20 hours ago (6 children)

I hate the one where you call them a fascist (because they literally are) and then they come around and call you a "blue MAGA".

like bitch, if I was "blue MAGA" I'd be making IEDs and forcing abortions on women and shit. ain't nobody got time for that. I'm building a garden so I can fuckin eat this year.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 29 minutes ago

Blue maga? I wouldn't encourage people to vote for the Democrat party if it had any viable competition.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Anyone who unironically says "blue MAGA" immediately gives themselves away as someone to not take seriously.

[–] theparadox@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

Calling someone "blue MAGA" is the equivalent of saying "no you!"

However, it's time to stop pretending like some small group of "MAGA" conservatives have hijacked the party and taken things too far. The monied interests backing Trump are the same as have been backing Republicans for decades. The Federalist Society, the Heritage Foundation, etc. Mitch McConnell has been working to fill the federal courts with Federalist picks for a long time. Picking or just outright manufacturing court cases that would set new precedents. Hell, even those thinktanks are just recent iterations of the same interest's attempts to shape the government as they see fit. Trump is just a nepo baby turned grifter who got lucky because his grift was actually effective at attracting and controlling the loudest segment of the Republican base.

Trump just transparently said "As long as I get filthy rich, get to be king, and you keep [metaphorically] sucking my dick, I'll keep my followers in line and use my position to put your people in power so they can implement your 'Project 25' or whatever." Republicans mostly objected to him because he lacked subtlety and was transparently greedy and petty. He ignored the game of slow, subtle changes and manipulation through "decorum" that Republicans had become experts in. Unfortunately for us, that worked wonders on a subset of the population

The people who helped those Republican politicians keep getting elected and basically wrote their proposed laws noticed Trump was popular. When it became apparent that Trump's followers were loyal, the money jumped at the chance to fast track their vision and backed him completely. They helped tweak and hone Trump's message to amplify his grifter magic. That plus some changes to election laws around the country, gerrymandering, and likely other more covert, extralegal vote manipulation got him back in power.

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[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 4 points 17 hours ago

Motte and bailey.

  • "The Kingdom of Foo has no inequality!"
  • "Actually it has quite a bit..."
  • "Well it's still moving in the right direction, and that's what really matters."
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