cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/4958707
I find this bleak in ways it’s hard to even convey
No way I'm discussing my mental health with big tech. You guys are insane.
this post was submitted on 19 May 2025
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Well perhaps that's the problem.
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Is this any bleaker than forming a parasocial relationship with someone you see on your screen?
"Could social media bring us all together and help bridge disagreements?" Same shit, different decade.
And just to clarify, it most definitely can! Just not when it's a for-profit-off-of-you model.
Personally I feel lije lemmy is a pretty good example of social media that doesn't go off the rails as it grows
You must know what you're doing and most people don't. It is a tool, its up to you how you use it. Many people unfortunately use it as an echo chamber or form of escapism, believing nonsense and "make beliefs" that aren't based in any science or empirical data.
If therapy is meant to pacify the masses and make us just accept life as it is then sure I guess this could work.
But hey, we love to also sell to people first that they are broken, make sure they feel bad about it and tell them they can buy their 5 minutes of happiness with food tokens.
So, I'm sure capitalists are creaming their pants at this idea. BetterHelp with their "licensed" Bob the crystal healer from Idaho, eat your heart out.
P.S. You just know this is gonna be able to prescribe medications for that extra revenue kick.
The only people that think this will help are people that don't know what therapy is. At best, this is pacification and certainly not any insightful incision into your actual problems. And the reason friends are unable to allow casual emotion venting is because we have so much stupid shit like this plastering over a myriad of very serious issues.
I don't think AI is quite ready for such a responsibility.
On the other hand it's what they have if all proper alternatives are paywalled such as therapy.
I can't wait until ChatGPT starts inserting ads into its responses. "Wow that sounds really tough. You should learn to love yourself and not be so hard on yourself when you mess up. It's a really good thing to treat yourself occasionally, such as with an ice cold Coca-Cola or maybe a large order of McDonald's French fries!"
Black mirror lol
That episode was so disturbing 😅
Nothing will meaningfully improve until the rich fear for their lives
Until we start turning back to each other for support and help,
and realize them holing up in a bunker underground afraid for their life's means we can just ignore them and seal the entrances.
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This is terrible. I'm going to ignore the issues concerning privacy since that's already been brought up here and highlight another major issue: it's going to get people hurt.
I did a deep dive with gen AI for a month a few weeks ago.
It taught me that gen AI is actually brilliant at certain things. One thing that gen AI does is it learns what you want and makes you believe it’s giving you exactly what you want. In a sense it's actually incredibly manipulative and one of the things gen AI is brilliant at. As you interact with gen AI within the same context window, it quickly picks up on who you are, then subtly tailors its responses to you.
I also noticed that as gen AI's context grew, it became less "objective". This makes sense since gen AI is likely tailoring the responses for me specifically. However, when this happens, the responses also end up being wrong more often. This also tracks, since correct answers are usually objective.
If people started to use gen AI for therapy, it's very likely they will converse within one context window. In addition, they will also likely ask gen AI for advice (or gen AI may even offer advice unprompted because it loves doing that). However, this is where things can go really wrong.
Gen AI cannot "think" of a solution, evaluate the downsides of the solution, and then offer it to you because gen AI can't "think" period. What gen AI will do is it will offer you what sounds like solutions and reasons. And because gen AI is so good at understanding who you are and what you want, it will frame the solutions and reasons in a way that appeals to you. On top of all of this, due to the long-running context window, it's very likely the advice gen AI gives will be bad advice. For someone who is in a vulnerable and emotional state, the advice may seem reasonable, good even.
If people then act on this advice, the consequences can be disastrous. I've read enough horror stories about this.
Anyway, I think therapy might be one of the worst uses for gen AI.
Thank you for the more detailed run down. I would set it against two other things, though. One, that for someone who is suicidal or similar, and can't face or doesn't know how to find a person to talk to, those beginning interactions of generic therapy advice might (I imagine; I'm not speaking from experience here) do better than nothing.
From that, secondly, more general about AI. Where I've tried it it's good with things people have already written lots about. E.g. a programming feature where people have already asked the question a hundred different ways on stack overflow. Not so good with new things - it'll make up what its training data lacks. The human condition is as old as humans. Sure, there's some new and refined approaches, and values and worldviews change over the generations, but old good advice is still good advice. I can imagine in certain ways therapy is an area where AI would be unexpectedly good...
...Notwithstanding your point, which I think is quite right. And as the conversation goes on the risk gets higher and higher. I, too, worry about how people might get hurt.
I agree that this like everything else is nuanced. For instance, I think if people who use gen AI as a tool to help with their mental health are knowledgeable about the limitations, then they can craft some ways to use it while minimizing the negative sides. Eg. Maybe you can set some boundaries like you talk to the AI chat bot but you never take any advice from it. However, i think in the average case it's going to make things worse.
I've talked to a lot of people around me about gen AI recently and I think the vast majority of people are misinformed about how it works, what it does, and what the limitations are.
Does gen AI say you you are worthless, you are ugly, you are the reason your parents devorced, you should kill yourself, you should doomscroll social media?
Probably not but I bet if you said it was your grandmas birthday you could get it to say most of that.
And hey sometimes it's the objective truth that it doesn't know.
Personally, I know I am the reason my parents are divorced. My incubator nicknamed me the "divorce baby" until she could come up with other worse names, but I wear it with pride. They were miserable POSs together and now at least my dad is doing better and my incubator has to spend a lot more effort scamming people.
Truths are what they are. But don't fall for the lies that your brain or robot chatbot tell you.
I've tried this ai therapist thing, and it's awful. It's ok to help you work out what you're thinking, but absymal at analyzing you. I got some structured timelines back fro. It that I USED in therapy, but AI is a dangerous alternative to human therapy.
My $.02 anyway.
unlike humans, the ai listens to and remembers me to me [for the number of characters allotted]. this will help me feel seen i guess
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What could go wrong?
AI-Fueled Spiritual Delusions Are Destroying Human Relationships - https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/ai-spiritual-delusions-destroying-human-relationships-1235330175/
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A human therapist might not or is less likely to share any personal details about your conversations with anyone.
An AI therapist will collate, collect, catalog, store and share every single personal detail about you with the company that owns the AI and share and sell all your data to the highest bidder.
I'm not advocating for it, but it could be just locally run and therefore unable to share anything?
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Am I old fashioned for wanting to talk to real humans instead?
No. But when the options are either:
- Shitty friends who have better things to do than hearing you vent,
- Paying $400/hr to talk to a psychologist, or
- A free AI that not only pays attention to you, but actually remembers what you told them last week,
it's quite understandable that some people choose the one that is a privacy nightmare but keeps them sane and away from some dark thoughts.
I listen to vents, it's just I don't havd opinions after that are useful.
I do get a bit of ringing in my ear after a while though.
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