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[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 32 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (6 children)

rowling is a transphobe, but gaiman is like weinstein a sex pest. she played it carefully for decades before coming out, when she had built a large amount of fans and support, much like lewis CK, the cancelling dint end his career so to speak, he moved all online before it got worst.

also transphobia has massive support from right wingers.

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[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 97 points 4 days ago (4 children)

I mean, I still love American Gods, Good omens and Neverwhere. I just stopped recommending them to people.

[–] benignintervention@lemmy.world 45 points 4 days ago (17 children)

I still enjoy his writing, but I'm not sure how to engage now. I want to separate the artist from the art and let the legal system do its thing as a separate thing and I don't know what 'right' looks like as a reader

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[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 16 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I'm so disappointed in Rowling. I loved Harry Potter and would've loved that videogame.

[–] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

From what I've read, the game was a barebones RPG with a suspiciously racialized plot, anyway.

[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 4 points 2 days ago

I played hundreds of hours of the GameCube chamber of secrets game just flying around the castle on a broom

[–] Anomalocaris@lemm.ee 9 points 3 days ago (4 children)

i told my kids they are free to enjoy it, not were never buying official merch, want merch but from artists. or when they wanted wands, i gave them a stick, a sharp knife and supervision and they made their own.

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[–] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 32 points 3 days ago (11 children)

People got into Gaiman at an older age than they got into HP. So HP is more deeply ingrained

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[–] swordfish@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (5 children)
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[–] Derpenheim@lemmy.zip 55 points 4 days ago (7 children)

Am I going to get rid of his works that I own? No, probably not. I love them. Which is why it sucks so much to never recommend them again, but that's the reality.

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 36 points 3 days ago (14 children)

Shitty people can make good art. Death of the author.

Just never give them money.

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[–] NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 21 points 3 days ago (53 children)

If anyone is looking for some ~~good~~ fucking amazing books by an awesome and genuinely fun and good natured dude, check out Jason Pargin, he is awesome and not problematic and his books are all bangers, and he also enabled and actively supports the careers of many other super awesome and creative people. Also, listen to Bigfeets.

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[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 51 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I’d only heard about Gaiman on tumblr, and they’re fairly socially conscious over there. Frankly, I’d be surprised if he had any staying power with the crowd that previously endorsed him.

“Sexually assault your fans” wouldn’t sit well with anyone, whereas “women aren’t real women” comes out of left field.

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[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 37 points 3 days ago (30 children)

Supporting Gaiman is supporting a rapist; it will negatively impact a couple people directly.

Supporting Rowling is much worse.

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[–] KindnessIsPunk@lemmy.ca 37 points 3 days ago

Harry Potter is so ubiquitous that most people who consume it do so without really knowing much about the author beyond their name and then there's a decent chunk that don't care because it doesn't affect them and they think it's culture war stuff that doesn't matter.

Making people care about things that don't directly affect them is always the hardest task.

[–] cupcakezealot@piefed.blahaj.zone 30 points 3 days ago (5 children)

hp was a big part of my pre transition life when i was in the closet. i hate jk so i dont buy new things but i still do reread my existing books. leaky, pottercast, and starkid were the first places i fit in.

but i dont actively seek out pro rowling hp fandom tho. fuck rowling.

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[–] SARGE@startrek.website 34 points 3 days ago (5 children)

some googling later

Well, shit. Glad I buy secondhand books at every opportunity, otherwise I would have given money to a human sized pile of shit.

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[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago (2 children)

There's just so much entertainment and incredible creativity out there. I genuinely don't understand allegiances like this.

I love Sandman but tbh fuck that dude and I'll go read one of other million alternative stories that often are just as good if not better.

The competition in creative industry is just insane and switching is basically free compared to any other industry. Like, good luck switching from John Deere if you're a farmer but Harry Potter fans have zero barriers and still can't do it. Spineless, weak people.

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[–] ThePyroPython@lemmy.world 40 points 4 days ago (9 children)

Thing is Gaiman pissed off all feminists with the SA allegations so of course he has disappeared from the online world because the cross over between Neil Gaiman readers and SA-appologists is very small.

Whereas a sect of the feminists support her gatekeeping opinion that the only thing that can describe if you're a woman is being born with a cunt. This one very vocal audience is not unified.

On top of that Rowling is more mainstream than Gaiman is and the general public is more willing to ignore the mudslinging world of gender politics and not get involved if it means more content from a popular mediocre scribe.

[–] dandelion@piefed.blahaj.zone 37 points 4 days ago (2 children)

yeah, agreed - Gaiman's fans are far less willing to tolerate his SA, HP fans are more general public and transphobia is more socially acceptable than SA.

Basically this post is essentially saying, "it's a shame transphobia is so acceptable to people"

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