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when did you realize you were gay?? (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 4 days ago by classybattery@sh.itjust.works to c/gaybros@lemmy.world
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i was straight for a long time until i dated a masc-presenting enby (masc + neutral terms) and realized i was ok with having boyfriends and dating guys and masc people. now i don’t even know if i like girls so i’ve come full circle or whatever…

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[–] wit@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I liked watching wrestling just to see all the muscular guys... Also, in school, I crushed on a few guys.

Though when imagining a family, I always pictured myself with a girl. Seeing myself with a guy was just.. weird and a little bit uncomfortable. I think that was internalized homophobia. When I imagine a "family" now, I definitely see myself with a boyfriend and not a girlfriend. In fact, I find the opposite now, picturing myself with a girl gives me the "yikes, disgusting".

[–] classybattery@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

trans guy here, i used to think seeing myself with a guy was also weird until i realized i liked girls. i thought i was gay but i just realized im bi

[–] lazyneet@programming.dev 9 points 4 days ago

I had a strong feeling of being bisexual in high school. Was totally open about it but nobody listened because I was a virgin.

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Who said I'm gay?

[–] idealotus@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago

You are gay

[–] yoshisaur@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 days ago

had a sleepover with my best friend when we were 13. I always thought he was good looking. once I saw him change, I thought he looked kinda cute. right before we went to bed, we were roughhousing and he got on top of me. that's when it really clicked to me

[–] con_fig@programming.dev 7 points 4 days ago

Start of college, I kinda just realised that I like men too. Then that grew to I guess I like everything so now I'm pan.