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[–] ConsumptionOne@sopuli.xyz 33 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This is me but with anti-car urbanism. Ever since I discovered Not Just Bikes, my feed has more and more videos showing how much better life can be if we shut off car brain and build for medium density with mixed use zoning and multi-mode infrastructure.

[–] dick_fineman@discuss.online 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

It's healthier for damn sure. But it only works if you can stand being around people. If you need space from people...you know, so they don't annoy you to the point of violence...then you need to live somewhere more remote, which necessitates driving. I'd love to walk a block, catch a bus, then walk a block to my destination if I didn't mean dealing with uncensored raw-humanity shoving its crotch into my face as I awkwardly pretend to be hyper-focused on my phone.

[–] ConsumptionOne@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Sure, no shade on rural living for those who need the space. I'm more opposed the the forced ruralization of suburbia. This video popped up in my feed and shows how much better medium-density suburban living could be in many places.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (4 children)

The bottom line rebuttal to all the variants of the "but whatabout people who want to live in single-family houses" arguments is real simple: if it were truly that important to them, then they would be willing to pay fair-market rates for it. Which means artificially inflating the supply (thus subsidizing the price) via restrictive zoning laws wouldn't be necessary.

People who think they are entitled to live in single-family houses to the point that they want the law to forcibly impose that lifestyle on vast swathes of the population are just selfish takers who want society to subsidize them.

[–] InternetCitizen2@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

Suburbs are also not giving that much space. Houses aren't that far apart.

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[–] pezhore@infosec.pub 45 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This is why I've stopped listening to 99% Invisible.

"Oh, cool that's what the bumps in the sidewalk/curb are for - blind accessibility stuff. Wait, why did it take that fucking long to actually make those a reality and why isn't it everywhere?"

Even their more lighthearted ones tend to dive into some orphan grinding machine territory.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago

Some countries (like mine) still don't have anything like that. Commuting sucks even for able-bodied people due to mismanagement/corruption.

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

I deal with it by trying my best but also a heavy dose of cognitive dissonance when required. And learning (painstakingly slowly) how to be compassionate to myself regarding my shortcomings of not being able to fix it all.

[–] CrayonDevourer@lemmy.world 31 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

This is why I watch kurzgesagt so I can have EXISTENTIAL crisis about things that will never actually affect me like the sun burning out, or the universe going completely dark, instead of more worldly crisis.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 14 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Kurzgesagt has a tendency to put neoliberal spin on the solutions they offer and they've recieved heat for it in the past. Careful with that channel

[–] CrayonDevourer@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yes, I'll definitely keep that in mind while I'm building my Dyson sphere to harness 100% of the energy of the sun and fly earth across space.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago

pfft, tryna shill inferior vacuum cleaner products on me. I'm a Henry man

You mean to tell me a channel sponsored by Bill Gates is techno-optimist? I am shocked!

[–] BotsRuinedEverything@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago (8 children)

We have always feared a robot uprising that would take over the world and subjugate humans, as though robots will replace us as the ultimate alpha predators.

We've already been replaced by our own creation. Money itself is the dominant species on this planet. Capitalism is the metabolic process of the organism. The stock market is its circulatory system. Politicians are its organs. Billionaires are its reproductive system. The individual workers are the mitochondria. This is a planet scale life form that is ready to reproduce itself onto surrounding bodies in space.

If you want the solution to the Fermi paradox there it is. Once a civilization is infected with economics it's only a matter of time before it is consumed by its own creation.

I agree fully, but would say billionaires are fat cells

[–] Samskara@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Money is power in a form transferable over time and space.

Long before capitalism, people considered money to be the root of all evil. Many religions have restrictions on what can be done with money, especially asking for interest.

[–] DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It's a desire fetish. Like a religious icon evokes a deity, money evokes desire.

[–] Samskara@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 1 points 2 days ago

No it's called money.

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[–] Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Yup! This is why we need to take money out of the hands of the wealthy and give it to the people they exploited.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago (8 children)

it's deeper than that.

money is the incentive to corruption. the actual cause of corruption is indifference to suffering of minorities and the disenfranchised.

the answer is easy. you don't have to donate. you don't have to protest. all you have to do is call out the smallest corrupt mistreatment of your fellow human beings.

see someone getting accosted by police because they are guilty of being black? start recording and ask the cops to identify themselves.

see someone being mistreated at a store because they are trans? call them out on it. get angry, tell make sure they are aware of how people that act like they do are treated.

also, don't stop going there. go there every day. make sure they aren't doing it again, and when they do, call them out on their bullshit again.

the only way to stop people from behaving badly is to teach them that it's unacceptable behavior.

a society that stands idly by while people in that society are attacked is doomed to suffer and die.

[–] kautau@lemmy.world 16 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

"I told you once that I was searching for the nature of evil. I think I've come close to defining it: a lack of empathy. It's the one characteristic that connects all the defendants. A genuine incapacity to feel with their fellow man. Evil, I think, is the absence of empathy."

-- Gustave Gilbert (After interviewing Nazis post-WWII)

[–] leftytighty@slrpnk.net 3 points 3 days ago (3 children)

an empathetic society is a cooperative society, a socialist society.

capitalism is completely indifferent to the human factor, competition is about few winners and many losers. unemployment is desirable, poor people must be allowed to die.

people think economics is a science but it doesn't consider human nature, "everyone tries to maximize their personal profit" isn't an anthropological statement it's capitalism restated.

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a lack of empathy isn't the source of corruption, money is. a lack of empathy is just a necessary pre-requisite.

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[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I tried switching to historical documentaries but people have been terrible since well before we started writing things down.

[–] Atomic@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago

Yeah I don't know when they would prefer to live instead. Every age and culture have their disadvantages, you can argue that some are more progressive than others in various ways.

But here's a fact. Penicillin was discovered 1928. That's not even 100 years ago. I don't know about others. But I'm really happy I live in the world where I don't have to risk dying from a tic bite.

[–] Gyroplast@pawb.social 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Fun side-effect: one finds a strange appreciation and understanding for supervillains hell-bent on ending life on earth, "for no reason".

Hey, if you want to see the world burn so badly, stop dilly-dallying and bring out the big guns! This is really taking longer than necessary.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I've flipped and flopped between being an accelerationist and a saviour when it comes to life-ending climate change.

Ultimately nobody has the guts to commit to using humans to simulate 100, 000, 000 whalefalls though.

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[–] NeedyPlatter@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Me when I watch any nature/animal documentary. So many endangered or extinct animals and for what??

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

and for what??

agriculture

i can't find it rn but sth like this also applies to the land usage worldwide. basically, we're taking wild animal's land, and that's what's killing them.

human population count has gone up 30x since the medieval ages. We used to be 300 million, now we're close to 10 billion.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 6 points 3 days ago

I just downloaded like 30 seasons of modern marvels. I'm hoping those will restore some of my optimism for life since watching that show made me happy as a child.

[–] shplane@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Hence why conservatives hate education. It makes you have to feel empathy for other people and we can’t have that.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

How did you find a photo of me, with an accurate caption?

[–] Tower@lemmy.zip 7 points 3 days ago

Also applicable to scrolling through Lemmy most days.

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Ah, so you too have watched Adam Curtis documentaries.

HyperNormalisation https://youtu.be/to72IJzQT5k

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