Then why is that person still your friend?
this post was submitted on 21 Sep 2025
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He’s not, IDK why I said friend
Just find new friends.
Tell him to get therapy and discuss any historical trauma he has
Sounds like your friend is a horrible, despicable piece of shit and that you should cut ties and run very, very far away. Dude has an extreme amount of self internalized hatred if he believes he's one of the good bisexuals while everybody else is terrible. would imply that he thinks that bisexuals and queer people in general are at a default terrible and that he is one of the good ones by overcoming that. Leave.
You can either, as people on here seem to support, run away, or you can call him on his bullshit every time. Engagement may change his song a bit. If not, then sure, run away.
I cut him off