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So, how many of you are actually gay?

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Closeted transbian, so: very gay, but currently in a straight-passing relationship. My girlfriend is bi, so maybe one day we can be gay instead of pretending to be straight.

[–] ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If you mean gay as in homosexual: I'm not

If you mean gay as in happy: I'm not

[–] SteveXVII@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

As a bisexual, I often use the word gay to describe myself, so it isn't exclusively meant for homosexuals.

[–] Linuxduck@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

Same. I'm non binary, pan sexual... But I'm also gay af

[–] trips@yiffit.net 3 points 2 years ago

Somewhere between 90% and the whole rainbow I imagine.

[–] AllHailTheSheep@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

trans and gay :)

[–] henry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

It's interesting how most of the answers are not just "gay" or "straight" but more complex, because it definitely is for me. I'm pansexual but definitely more into girls. And cis male but wishing I could be a femboy lol

[–] NinjaFox@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

AMAB Ace Aro guy who is kinda genderfluid in training (help lol). Also in a poly triad so....am I gay?

[–] exohuman@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 years ago

I’m gay and married to the same sex. We have a kid too. I love our family.

[–] EnglishMobster@fedia.io 2 points 2 years ago

I'm a cis straight white male, but LGBTQ folks make the bombest-ass memes so I'm here for that tbh

[–] sharkfucker420@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm bi but in a straight passing relationship. Most people don't know

[–] sharkfucker420@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

I also fuck sharks

[–] magmaus3@szmer.info 1 points 2 years ago
[–] AlexTheTurtle@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

I am so gay i like men, women and enbies.

[–] CoachDom@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

Cis straight but everybody should be themselves

[–] SubWoofer@catgirl.pub 1 points 2 years ago

I would love to kiss all the genders

[–] Lexica@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

I am a flaming dy**!

[–] merryGoose@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago
[–] donkeythesnowman@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] SteveXVII@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

If only there was a hint in your profilepic or your username.

[–] Dver@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I don't really figured it out yet, but I'm (cis male) in a happy relationship with trans man, if it counts!

[–] merryGoose@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

I don't think you neccesarily have to have a label, as long as you're happy with yourself and your partner!

[–] OttoVonNoob@lemmy.ca 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Cis White dude becoming middle aged soon:X.. But this community shares my values, humor and has always made me feel welcome on Reddit so it was natural to join here. Confused about 195 though?

[–] RomeCallen@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

aay me too!

tho i dunno if i believe in middle age

i think youre young until your not ;)

[–] leamaya@feddit.de 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Im poly and Omni (though heavily leaning towards the femme side), does that count as gay?

[–] SteveXVII@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

You tell me.

[–] ssfckdt@mastodon.cloud 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] SteveXVII@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] ssfckdt@mastodon.cloud 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] lazy_digestive@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)