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I agree in general - if the situation is me, a straight man, with two straight women, it generally doesn’t sound appealing. I don’t want to be in a situation where I feel like I need to please and divide attention between two partners who are both focused on me. It’s a recipe for performance anxiety and one or both partners feeling left out.

That said, being with two women who are in to me and into each other could be a lot of fun. At that point, there is a lot more flexibility in activity and I would feel less pressure to be the one to make sure both partners are satisfied. Awesome activities: double blowjob, being on the bottom and eating one woman out while the other fucks or sucks on me. Fucking one partner while the other eats the third partner out, watching them two play with each other…

Or being with two women who would both enjoy taking a pause and just watching the action would also be a lot of fun. But I know it takes a certain mindset to be able to enjoy that and not feel left out and/or jealous.

I’ve always thought that a foursome with another couple would actually be easier to manage. This is especially true if everyone is straight in the scenario. This is because, despite there being one more person in the mix, it would be easier to “pair up” and switch around the pairing up such that people aren’t getting left out. Of course, the potential for jealousy and feeling left out remains in this scenario… just a bit less likely.

As far as I know, “whiskey dick” refers to not being able to get it up, losing your erection, or having a partial erection due to drunkenness.

To your original question, alcohol/drunkenness will often make a guy last longer. I think this is a relatively well known phenomenon.

One reason is desensitization: alcohol tends to numb sensations. This leads to needing harder oand/or longer stimulation to get off.

Another reason is mental state: alcohol tends to help people let go of inhibitions and nerves. Guys (really, people in general) can get anxious about their performance. Worry about cumming too fast is often self fulfilling; the anxiety and focus on the problem makes it happen. Alcohol usually lowers anxiety, keeping that vicious cycle at bay. It’s the same with erection issues. Alcohol can quell anxiety and make it easier to get it up… but it’s also walking a tightrope; too much alcohol and whiskey dick may occur.

Edit: oops, I’m not a lady. Just a dude who has experienced of all these things :p

A workaround for you: upvote twice (ie upvote and remove the upvote) to get the post marked as read.

This is nothing new fighting pedophilia and human trafficking are the smokescreen used to enact most laws controlling the internet.

Edit to fill in what I’m implying: these laws (eg FOSTA-SESTA) are either ineffective or counterproductive in their stated goal, while simultaneously having broad add-on effects, generally harming free speech.

FOSTA-SESTA makes sex work less safe for those who are not trafficked. Meanwhile it pushes actual traffickers “underground” and off the internet, making it much harder for law enforcement to find and successfully prosecute them. Bonus: the law has been used to push sex education and general discussion of sex and sexuality off of major websites.

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Another older fart here. As others have said, you look good! Wearing it a few times to get used to it is a great tip.

Especially since they are inexpensive clothes, if you need to clean them, wash and dry them carefully. Dunno your setup, but make sure the washer is set to cold or the low side of warm. Dry medium and don’t over dry. If the washer and dryer have a “permanent press” setting, that should work ok. Immediately hang them; don’t let them sit in the dryer.

I think I have a better workaround, which I stumbled on elsewhere (maybe reading the voyage issue log on gethub): Switch to another app then back to voyager. If your iPhone has no home button, just swipe right on the bottom bar to go to the previous app then swipe left to get back to voyager. This has been working for me and is super quick.

Ah. Unfortunately, that’s not what I see. I’m guessing this is a markdown issue. I feel like I’ve seen lack of markdown support being mentioned as an issue with lemmy on mobile. Here is what I see:

https://files.catbox.moe/c1nrqz.png

So… I guess you could manually number them for idiots like me… or just wait for markdown support to work properly.

Thanks Mikey and the rest of the admins.

I have a small suggestion: number the rules on the sidebar. For me (iOS safari and iOS voyager), the rules show up as bullets. If they were numbered, when someone refers to a “rule #” violation, I wouldn’t have to count the rules to figure out which one was being violated.

Yeah, I’m that lazy.

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