RBWellsV23

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[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

It's a sort of inhumanly clean sorta soap smell in some perfumes, usually in the understated minimalist ones. I like florals, fruity stuff, dirty musks, spices, but apply lightly because it's for me, don't want much projection. I don't think guys usually care. I remember once I asked 3 men and one said "only vanilla", one said "anything but vanilla" and one said "I don't care"

So I went on just pleasing myself. Anybody close enough to smell it hopefully is already into me, lol.

Oh! I also wanted to note, it took a long time for my husband to believe that I was wearing perfume. He would say "you smell so good" and I'd say "yeah, Mure et Musc Extreme" (or whatever I had on), and he'd say "no, it's a little bit your shampoo or body wash mostly just you, not perfume" but it was definitely the perfume.

So it is possible that some of the scent you think is just person is actually perfume, a lot of them wear down to really pretty, very human smelling skin scents.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I love perfume, for myself. Not trying to be sexy with it, but like to smell affirmatively good not just clean. I don't like "clean smelling" perfumes at all, the laundry musks are not my thing. Some of my kids like those, I don't. Guys, as long as they don't smell bad, that's a win.

But I have twice in my life been ridiculously, outrageously sexually attracted to guys I didn't like the look of, and could only conclude my body must have thought they were biologically compatible. It wasn't an obvious smell or anything, not consciously, but I do think it was a smell that I could subconsciously perceive.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I like hands, and fear the belt. Hands I feel like he gets more feedback, if it hurts him a little it is moderated. I like some aggression and do like a little fear but after I want to know I did a good job, or at least that it's all over for now - unless he can get me off and be a little mean about how easy that is after the pain, that is hot too.

I hope that made sense. Foreplay I don't care as much, it should make some kind of sense, either him wanting to because it turns him on or some kind of scene but as long as I'm not "VERY not into it right now" which occasionally happens, it is enough of a turn on to work itself out regardless.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 month ago

I thought it was just a standard girl thing but more sex makes more sex drive? Maybe that is more individual. I made it (except for the dreams) but more of a drag than a tease overall I would say, especially the trying not to get turned on.

But it didn't break anything long term, sex drive came through fine we still have sex every day, years later. I do get the dreams sometimes still, always have but not so often, a few times a year? Yes it's nice to wake up and do it again!

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No, but only the unexpected dreams about people I'm not attracted to IRL are precognitive. I do have regular ones too, with my husband or some dream person I don't know.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 8 points 1 month ago

I get enough of what I need but would certainly enjoy more rough play with my boobs. Am on the smaller side and stuff that hits the whole boob, like slapping, not just nipples.

But don't like to explicitly ask for it! So my own fault for not marrying a mind reader.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Literal dream, like asleep dream? It's not exactly a person or activity, it's that moment when maybe becomes yes, the feeling of inevitability. I get that more in dreams than in real life and it's such an amazing feeling, like safety and risk wrapped into one feeling - the knowing I cannot stop it now, the leaning in.

Also, oddly enough, if I have a sex dream about someone I've not seen for awhile, I see them the next day, or they call or text me. It is either the oddest form of precognition I can imagine, or they can feel it too - this is only with people I have no sexual attraction to IRL.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 month ago

If you are dissatisfied, I agree with DavidDoes. Lean bodies build shape so, so fast. Every pound of muscle shows immediately. Just lift heavy and eat a little more (not a lot more, I'd say one extra hard boiled egg a day or equivalent). It's a short jump and few pounds from twink to male model (fashion model not athletic model) build.

If you just mean you don't care about physical appearance, but aren't attached to being petite, I'd still advise getting in shape because exercise helps mood and will probably help your confidence.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I haven't found sexual dominance in guys to relate to their size or body type. Would say for pictures direct eye contact, and strong posture show confidence. You like your build, yes?

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

For me, sometimes he seems to grow inside me, that is so hot. If I can't he gives a helping hand.

For husband, he says it's when he has to be still because I am banging back against him to try to cum, sometimes he does when I do in that situation. For me, sort of the opposite, if he is grabbing my hips and using me, that can set me off.

Most likely overall? Not sure but probably when I am trying to in some way, just concentrating on how it feels.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago

I like the body but that's an unflattering camera angle.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

This happened to me, but on top of it I wasn't supposed to orgasm (cervix surgery) I just did the husband with hands & mouth. 6 weeks. But that was so hard without reciprocation and I ended up having lots of sex dreams with orgasm, my body was not on board with the no O thing.

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