RBWellsV23

joined 2 years ago
[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago

No, nor is it wrong for a 26 year old woman to have a hookup with an 18 year old man.

I don't think it would be as much fun as someone near your age, but wrong? No.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 month ago

I think sex and love are separate so you can be bisexual but hetero or homo romantic, only really able to love people of one sex. I think most men are sexually opportunistic, too, like even if it's not their preference they might be able to enjoy something in the moment.

So unless you are some sort of hypocrite who maligns gay men and holds yourself up as some ideal heterosexual while harboring desire for sex with men, there is no problem here, call yourself straight if that's how you identify.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago

I would love a dirty jokes and comics community, that sounds awesome.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 13 points 1 month ago

LemmyNSFW overall, or this Ask community? I think the overall NSFW is growing, there's a lot of stuff I don't want to see, and a lot of ads, for lack of a better word, just people promoting their onlyfans. I don't mind that but often wish we had a big enough userbase for the nonsexual, not commercial nudes stuff. Like in reddit there was naked progress, normal nudes, I loved those threads.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 month ago

I always think guys cast a wide net, so don't read too much into it. My understanding is that they imagine fucking plenty of the people they see in a day, is that a misapprehension?

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You have such a great figure, we are all our own worst critics I guess. It's funny how we can look in a mirror and see only what's wrong - if someone else posted with exactly this body shape I bet you would think she looked great.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I put it in the other thread, but only once has that been transcendent for me. Generally when I am tired I feel much less. I say mornings are for my husband and afternoons are for me, once I am really awake and have had calories and caffeine everything feels better.

There is a desperateness to the exhausted sex that can add something for sure but not worth the tradeoff for me in general.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Is quite nice for an isolated dick pic, lol. Also you do look perfect size btw. But isolated pictures of genitals not my thing.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 2 months ago

Absolutely clear minded, stone sober sex is my favorite, I've never really enjoyed it as much while drunk or on any drugs except for one time coming down from LSD had an amazing time but I think that was an outlier.

Generally speaking I prefer to feel everything, and I feel it better when starting out clear of mind. And awake, though again, one exception - one time my ex caught me at exactly the right level of sleepiness, I felt like all the inessential layers of personality had been peeled back and it was amazing, relaxed but so intense.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I don't feel qualified to speak on behalf of womanhood, but would say don't worry much about being erect, we are looking at the whole body, and just look at it yourself, do you like it? Like if it was a picture of someone else.

Also if you have someone who likes the way you look, let them take pictures, it makes a difference.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 months ago

Ah. Yeah I am cold when sleeping, not sweaty. But that makes sense. We wash sheets on Fridays and they do not look dirty by then, not worried about being cleaner than that.

[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 13 points 2 months ago (7 children)

In order of preference

BDSM stories (M/f, either perspective but M perspective best)

Other erotica, heterosexual or bisexual ok but like some straight action in there

BDSM still images (M/f)

Artsy nudes for drawing practice, especially male nudes not erect

Fit chicks (inspirational)

Amateur couples where the guy is as hot as the lady

Some of the gay man stuff, particularly D/s or any power imbalance like that.

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